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Am so disappointed, today is my 5th muscarriage. I really don't know what to do. What's the point anymore?!!!

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So sorry for your loss....

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Oh bab.... Please don't give up! X I had one miscarriage .... That's tough.... But you are stronger than you think...! You keep trying, and shows your strength! X talk to your doctor/ consultant....

As easy as it is for me to say... But stay positive.... ! X

Thinking of you!! Xxxxx

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Oh bab.... Please don't give up! X I had one miscarriage .... That's tough.... But you are stronger than you think...! You keep trying, and shows your strength! X talk to your doctor/ consultant....

As easy as it is for me to say... But stay positive.... ! X

Thinking of you!! Xxxxx

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Sorry to hear that. Do doctors say there is anything that can be done to give you a better chance of carrying full term. My mom had 4 miscarriages before I was born.

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Very sorry for your loss. Don't give up, I too had 4 miscarriages, but now have 4 girls. I sincerely understand your pain.

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How sad you must be feeling. Does your GP know about these miscarriages? You should talk to him or her about being referred for specialist investigation. It could be a genetic or a physical problem and both can be sorted out.

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Hiya, thanks for all the replies! I just feel do helpless. I am a paediatric oncology nurse and I had to give it up cos it was breaking my heart. My last miscarriage resulted in a d&c where the Drs said that everything looks ok. I can't take much more! Xxxx

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Welcome to LUpus Patients Understanding & Support (LUPUS) at HealthUnlocked.

I am very sorry to read this and cannot imagine the pain and distress you are going through. I was wondering whether the doctors have determined the cause of your miscarriages and whether anyone has mentioned the antiphospholipid antibody (Hughes) syndrome, which is one of the major causes of miscarriages?

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I look forward to talking with you more!

Sometimes we need to talk to people who understand and who are not family or friends.

With good wishes,

Ros

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Hi I didnt want to read and run especially as this is a subject so close to my heart.I am very sorry for your loss it is very sad. I had two miscarriages and ectopic pregnancy losing part of of one of my fallopian tubes I had given up hope and was devastated so feel your pain. But I went on to eventually have two beautiful girls so please don't give up love and hugs xxx

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My fiancé says that things will get better, I don't see it!

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You are understandably very distressed. This is very raw and you cannot be expected to ignore the grief you are feeling. It sounds as if your fiancé wants to support you and I am sure he is also very sad. Is there someone, a counsellor, you can talk to? You can always email me: roz [at] [lupus-support] [dot] [org] [dot] [uk]

I am very sorry for your loss.

With good wishes,

Ros

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