Rt upper lobectemy

[Mydadstory]

Father past Friday after what was supposed to be simple love wedge resection on top of rt lung

[FtB_Peggy]

I am so very sorry, what a painful loss for you and all his loved ones. Please know I am holding you all in my prayers.

[Mydadstory in reply to FtB_Peggy]

Thank you just looking for answers

[Mydadstory]

He had a small spot on vatscan test came back inconclusive for 13 months checked every three 4 needle biopsy inconclusive then a small spot on other lung 3.1 cm doctor said needed to remove upper left lung lobe. Done in Nov 17 came back with precancerous cell activit....father did fine out of hospital in 3 days Pops was 66 I buried him today on vetrans memorial cemetery ....

[Mydadstory]

Are you alive?

[Mydadstory]

Dr had scans of rt lung again that they had been watching for years cause of bad phemonia 9 yrs ago same Dr went in and washed lung off and sucked out fluid and what they thought was scar tissue kept showing up on scans

[frisk]

So sorry for the loss of your father!

[Denzie Moderator Volunteer]

The loss of a parent is difficult no matter the age or cause. Without an autopsy they can’t be certain what the actual cause of death was.

So very sorry for the pain this has caused. I hope you find strength to carry forward and share stories of his love and life.

[Steph60]

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts during this very difficult time. Cherish your memories.

[anrean]

I am so sorry for your loss. There is no reason or rhyme some times for what happens. We just have to trust God and know that we CAN keep going with our lives.

One way to do that is to celebrate his life and hold tight to the memories. We just had a Heavenly Birthday celebration for a friend on the day of her passing 6 years ago. You will find your own way to celebrate his life! He would not want you to wallow in sorrow.

It might be a good idea to see a grief counselor to help you through this most difficult time. They are skilled at teaching us how to get through the great sorrow of losing a loved one.

You are in our prayers and thoughts during this time.

Lauri-Anne

[JRuthI1946]

Unfortunately,we DON'T always have answers to our questions. It sounds to me like grief counseling, as suggested would be very beneficial . Communities usually have groups to come together and help heal each other. Individual counseling of course is always available. Warm wishes for healing your heart.