Need your help

[DanielMaclaren]

Hi there! Wanna to share my problem. I'm suffering of severe adenomyosis and as a result can not conceive naturally. I have already had 4 cycle of IVF and 7 unsuccessful embryos transfer: 2 in Malaysia, 1 in Singapore and Philippines. You know, it seems like I will never hold my own child in my hands, and this thought actually killing me. I wanted to use my own eggs, but now hesitating it can really happen - I mean my pregnancy. Maybe someone faced this problem and can prompt me a solution? Thank you all for your attention

[angellllll]

I am extremely sorry to hear about your failed cycle. This must be very hard for you. My honest advice to you would be to make sure that the clinic you visit next time is operating at a success rate. This is the advice that I give to everyone. Mainly because the clinic you visit matters a lot! Fertility treatments need to be treated by professionals. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way.

[Gia_9]

I'm so sorry to hear about your ordeal... it's really hard to hold onto hope when you've been through so much already! 4 failed IVF cycle is huge and probably the only alternative that may have little possibility is any is Surrogacy. People say surrogacy is last resort... after all that you've had been through already, I think you need to settle for the last resort. There's a clinic in Ukraine, Biotexcom that says no infertility is absolute... it's quite true if you put in a specific way. There's nothing like you'll never have your baby it's just that are you willing to do what it takes to have one? Some have to compromise of being the biological mother... some made arrangements for travel and financing the process... some other issues. But there's one thing for sure if you move on and not by repeating the same step but from one to the other and more advanced procedures you'll have your success. You haven't mentioned what exactly was the problem but if you could manage to get Embryos for transfer the there's no compromise on being the biological mother. You'll just miss out on the gestation. I think when it comes to having a baby and having a baby having to give up on gestation the choice is somewhat obvious. I hope you find your way around.

[ElectraHunter]

Hey dear! Feeling so sorry to know about your struggle. How are you now? What was the reason of your failure itself? Year ago I was thinking about surrogacy but found a way to bear a child by myself. To say the truth it was the gloomiest period of my life, I mean thought I will never have a baby. But now I'm on my 25 week of gestation and so happy of that! Please tell us how do you deal with your diagnosis and what decision have you made?