Fertility, Miscarriage & IVF Support by MamaBe
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Looking for your advices on IVF

Hello ladies,

I have been reading this site and finally decided to post my own story. I have got some problems, but there is no one to share with…and I do hope you, girls, are those who can understand me. I really need your support and advices.

In the late 90s I got married to a nice guy, who I thought was my one and only, but I was wrong… In fact, he was cheating on me all the time right behind my back. I was exhausted 27 years old female and as it was my first marriage I tried to save it but it’s only me who did. 24/7 arguments, nerves, tears and all that stuff made me feel depressed. Soon he left me, but I wasn’t alone as his last present was chlamydia. The infection became more serious and caused pelvic inflammatory disease. Of course, there is a treatment but I was warned that some problems with pregnancy may be occurred.

Now I am 45 and I’m not able to get pregnant yet...My new husband wants to have children and he’s even ready to adopt one, but you know, I want to have my own kid. I found out about IVF procedure with DE and it seems to me quite attractive. But I’m a bit scared and confused. What if it won’t give any results? I know it costs a lot but what about guarantees? I’d like to have some advices from those, who have experience.

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Just wanted to wish you all the best with yr search and further treatment x

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Thank you!! It means a big deal to me! x

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I haven't started my IVF journey yet but once they have done all the necessary checks they can give you a rough idea of success rate. Nothing in life is guaranteed but some things are worth the risk. I wish you all the best in your journey :-). My aunt had bad scarring after my uncle had unknowingly given her an STD he had from a previous relationship and there was no symptoms until they tried for kids and due to issues they found the scarring. She had IVF and managed have a little boy. Think positive x

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thank you for the supportive reply! I know that it's hard to get guarantees though I still hope to find a place where is a quite high success rate or a refund program...

I'm glad taht your aunt overcame that unpleasant obstacle, such bright examples of ivf success five me hope. thank you! x

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if you want to compare clinics' success rates, check out eggdonationfriends com, they offer very helpful comparison tool and list lots of overseas ivf clinics. x

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Thank you! it's really great resource, finally I could find the essential information about the places I'm ineterested in. xx

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Recently, infertility issues are very common. There are some clinics in my contacts offers IVF, egg donation, sperm donation, and Surrogacy! But you have to follow some rules or guidelines. They're dealing with egg donation and surrogacy processes, so that we got interested. Also there's a plenty of things they offer to their intended patients. They had a free consultation with the patient coordinator. They explained us the process and shared their own family story which made you cry.

Try these kinds of best clinics.

Best of Luck...tc

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Barrenness issues are exceptionally normal. There are a few facilities in my contacts offers IVF, egg gift, sperm gift, and Surrogacy! I haven't begun my IVF travel yet however once they have done all the essential checks they can give you a harsh thought of progress rate. Nothing in life is ensured except for a few things are justified regardless of the hazard. I want you to enjoy all that life has to offer on your excursion :- ). Think positive.

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