Bad news today

[LuxFleur]

Unfortunately things were bad at the scan today. Heart had stopped and the pregnancy is over. They offered my the surgery today to end the pregnancy and I took it so I didn't have to face the painful long process at home. It's still horrific with this route but I thought it would be a little easier and at least be over faster. This was the last chance for me and the end of the road. I don't even really want well-wishes or sympathy, I just thought I should let people know. I will leave things up for a few days and then I think will delete this account.

[OurMiracleBabies]

Thank you for update. Sending hugs.. I won't comment further as per your wish.

[Nenad]

Just wanted to send you a big virtual hug xx

[Msze]

this hurts my heart. I’m so damn sorry. 💔

[Jrss1]

😢 xx

[Football61]

I’m so, so sorry. I’ve been following your updates, and am gutted to read this. I hope you’re ok x

[Capps8]

I’m sorry and gutted for you x

[AuroraXen]

I'm devastated for you 💔 😢 x

[jengi]

This is heartbreaking to read, I’ve been following your journey for a long time. Sending a big virtual hug to you Xx 😘

[Hopewhite]

this is heartbreaking to read , sending you love and a big hug xx

[Bed12]

I’m sorry to hear this. Sending you my thoughts and all my good energy at this difficult time. Xx

[PenguinBlue]

so sorry to see this update. Sending you lots of love and strength in this heartbreaking time xx

[Nane22]

sending hugs lovely xx

[Rol81]

So devastated for you, you need time to process and time away from forum is sometimes needed.

❤️

[A_Fortune]

just today I thought about you and wondered how you were getting on. Thanks for the update. Will include you in my prayers.

[Infragilis]

Very sorry to read this as I went through something similar three months ago. Was a terrible time so I know you are not ok and I send you a hug. It was my last chance too. I've now decided on donor. The surgery was your best option. They wouldn't give me that and I went through two rounds of tablets, horrific bleeding and still ended up doing the surgery. So that's good you did that. Just wanted to reach out as I feel you and I know you will be angry , I was because this is not fair. You will feel better and appreciate other things in life. Until you start to feel a bit better I do send you lots of love.

[Hidden]

❤️ Sending you love!

[Lamagarden]

I’m so sorry xx

[km307]

I’m so sorry to hear this. I hope you have good support around you at this horrible time x

[Eggfreezer2015]

I’m so so sorry and saddened to hear your news. Sending big hugs 💜

[DG2022]

reallly horrible news, I’m so sorry 😢 you are not alone xx

[Miracle43]

I’m so sorry Lux 💔. I’ve been through similar. I hope you have support around you. Take one day at at time. Sending you love x

[KNissa]

Just heartbroken for you.

[DreamingOfTwo79]

My heart breaks for you, I am so very sorry. This is just awful. Look after yourself xx

[Positive20]

luxFleur thinking of you xxx

[Jess1981]

I know your instructions are not to show sympathy but I can't not in this heartbreaking situation. I am so so sorry for your loss & thinking of you. Hope in time you find peace and happiness Xx

[nT455]

I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. This journey is the hardest. 😔

[Twiglet2]

😢💔 life is so unfair sometimes, remember to lean on others and look after yourself, sending love and healing thoughts xxx

[Ajtart]

I'm so sorry. You have been through so much and I am devastated for you. I hope you can recover from this in time xx

[hoping_for_our_time]

So sorry to hear xxx

[Babybaby321]

take care LuxFleur, thank you for being there for me. Lots of hugs xxx

[Debsdex11]

Sending big hugs, just to take one day at a time for now, and look after yourself xxx

[Hockey112]

I’m so heartbroken for you. Sending love to you xx

[paintthesky]

Sending love and be kind to yourself x

[Honey328]

If I could I would give you big hug. Today we have been thinking about you.

[Asha82]

I'm so sorry to hear that, I know how you feel I had a silent miscarriage and had a d&c done 5 weeks ago, sending you hugs xx

[MayTheForth]

Can only begin to imagine how painful this is for you, sorry to hear of your news. Self-care is so important, be gentle with yourself xx

[Hopenevergiveup]

devastated for you 🥲

[HoneyB11]

so sorry for your loss, please take care Xx

[MAPB]

Life can be so cruel. Hopefully you can go down another route such as a donor but regardless my heart is breaking for you. I just wanted to add to all the love you have been sent xxx

[Shelleybean]

Devastated for you 💔 Please take care of yourself xx

[Sunshine809]

I'm so incredibly sorry. It's such a cruel process. I've been following your posts for a long time and my hope is that everyone on here gets to have their happy ending. Yours might just take a little bit more time. Take care xxx

[Titawine]

My 6th transfer ended up on misscarge last month. It was hard, all I know that this too shall pass, and time is the only healer I can rely on. Thank you for the update

[Citizenerased83]

I hope you have good support around you and can allow yourself to feel all of your emotions. I'm incredibly sorry about your miscarriage and this being the end of your journey.

Sending you lots of hugs. Xx

[Hidden]

Thinking of you LuxFleur

Life is so unfair and cruel sometimes. I know there are no words to bring you comfort or solace. I was really hopeful for you this time. Please be kind to yourself xxx

[TopGuntastic]

💗

[Sw1234]

You're in my thoughts x

[Tir-26]

I’m so sorry, your in my thoughts x

[Kmcdon]

Thinking of you. 💕

[butterfliez]

I am so sorry for your loss , I know no words will take away any of this pain but I just wanted you to know that we are all here to support you. It is just so cruel and unfair. sending you so much strength and please take care xx

[Star241]

thinking of you ❤️

[Kt8e21]

sending love ❤️

[HopeOfYou]

I'm so so sorry for your loss, lovely 💔

I really hoped I didn't find this message when I checked the portal... Sending you tight hugs, I wish you to be at peace and to find happiness whatever life has on for you.