delicate question

[stongenough]

Ladies, I have a very delicate concern - but I’m sure that you’ll understand. It’s about sex life, the sense of the inner sexuality when you are ttc…sex became no fun, it’s more like thing that you should do, it’s never spontaneous, I even feel sometimes that it’s became like a proof of my failure as a woman…it never was this way before, I love my body and my husband, I love sex…but now I question many things…

[Charlotte79]

My dear, i know how it feels...i felt the same..you need to nurture you marriage, the easiest way is to try to go somewhere, change the ambient, have some days only for you both, without speaking about cycles and conceiving..

[Marisa32]

Ttc for a long period of time has its way of ruining your sex life. So during ovulation, I would use an at home IUI kit to take that pressure off.

[Sorokazzani]

I know exactly how you feel, but I don't have any good solutions. We tried naturally for over a year and it made sex feel like a chore for both of us. Now that we are doing IVF it's no better because all the hormone treatments have really impacted the way I feel about myself and impacted my moods. Fortunately my husband is a patient man and there's more to our relationship than the sexual connection, but it would be nice to get some of the spark back at some point!

[Running79]

Same here, certainly became a chore, walking around with my ovulation kit!

IVF for us took a bit of the chore bit out for us apart from when my husband needed to prepare to give another sample.

We are 13 weeks + 3 now and although got to be a bit careful and at a slightly slower pace we will rekindle what we had before ........ eventually