12dpt2dt bleeding cramping since last night

[Nuttybutt]

Hi all 👋 gutted bad cramping and bleeding since last night . Have not took a pregnancy test since 2 days ago. I feel in despair I don't think I can afford anymore IVF. Otd wednesday can't bring myself to buy a test. Because I know the answer. I don't know what to do next. I'm meant to be at work on Wednesday and I can't let them down as I am a nurse.

Any tips on how to just bury this pain and get through Wednesday I'm dreading going in . I need to keep myself together. I'm in a 12 hour and just need to focus on that .

Thanks in advance xxx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Nuttybutt. I can fully understand how scared and anxious you are just now. Bleeding doesn't necessarily mean it's all over, so keep up with any prescribed medication you have been given, and rest when you can. You will still need to do your test on Wednesday, so we will all be thinking of you, and good luck with your 12-hour shift. Diane

[Corchi]

I’m so sorry Diane. I don’t know what to say so I’ll just say I’m sending strength and love your way.