11 days past 5 days transfer Hearthbroken today. Everything was so perfect. Pgs tested embryo and transfered as per ERA receptive test. Bfn
I feel this is the end of the road for me. If this did not work i dont know what will.
Stark white FRER.... Not even a hint that my embryo attempted to implant.
Depressed and hearthbroken. Will cry today and tomorrow up until i have no more tears to cry💔💔💔
Oo so sorry...just wait for OTD... everything will b okay insha ALLAH
Ameen
So so sorry to hear the bad news... crying is good... you need to let out that pain. Praying for strength for you... 💕
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Omg I am so sorry. I don't know what to say. I know your heartbroken and I know you need to cry but after you do u need to be strong again and keep fighting for your dream. Xxxx
Yes true... Im. Just afraid there is a further underlying problem the doctors have not discovered. I really hope the clinic comes up with some new suggestions on what to do next
Lorita I'm in a similar boat. How many transfers have you done? I've been thinking if having ERT test but my clinic is not keen. They say there is no guarantees with ERT or PGS. But that doesn't mean it won't work next time. The more transfers you do the higher chance of success. You just need to feel better . Cry your eyes out and do all you need to do. But when you feel better get back on your feet and keep going. Xxxx
This was my 2nd transfer from 3 ivf cycles. 1st cycle I had 2 day 3 embryos bfn, no frosties. Than i decided to go to czech republic for treatment and do pgs. Over 2 cycles i made 2 blastocysts only one was pgs normal and one mosaic. Used the pgs normal Bfn. I will most probably ask for a hysteroscopy or laparoscopy now. I dont know really, tought this was our time 😞
Can I ask what is an ERT please? I did an ERA
Endometrial receptivity test.
I thought that was the same as ERA but I'm not sure. Sorry if I've confused you.
I think its the same as ERA. I had that too.. The full one consisting of 3 tests. My clinic said I'm still to have beta tomorrow... I hate that they give me false hope.
Yes I know exactly what you mean but I think you should do it unless you're having a full on period. I wish I could ease your pain hun. I'm so sorry.
Not false hope..The very first transfer i had in 2017,home test was negative,that same day blood test was positive.Though i lost it six weeks..My OTD is this Saturday...I have refrained from testing early,will wait till Saturday.You will surely get good reports tomorrow by His grace
If only.... Thanyou for replying. Ill hang on to the little hope of the blood test tomorrow xxx
So sorry hun x good to let it all out. big hugs to you xxx
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I think urine pregnancy strip test does not show too early...wait for beta hcg level tomorrow... hope for the best
Otd tomorrow... Have little hope tough
i know how u feel.. 2 weeks ago i also got bfn. its my 2nd FET with 2 embryos(both grade 1) but ended up with bfn.. only have 2 embryos left but i'm not hoping anymore after two failures.. but i always trust the miracle. i hope u'll get better hun.. mybe this is not our time yet.. but just think that it will happen soon.. lots of love for u😘😘
xxxx i only have 1 frostie left, a mosai embryo. Than we have to start again
Oh but OTD hasn't reached? while not keep faith alive and do your blood test...I wish you well.
Otd tomorrow 😭🤞
I get this feeling twice then I get my positive one!
Really? You had negative home test and positive blood test?
I mean two failed cycle
recieving the news that your embryo hasn’t implanted is such an emotional and traumatic experience, and unless you’ve gone through it you’ll never comprehend.I’m sorry to read this post and my thoughts are with you..
Be kind to yourself and don’t make an rash decisions..
I also had ERA test and it failed 4x before we finally got lucky (round19) we looked in depth at the protocol and the game changer for us was trilaminar uterus and use of prednisone..
I wish you success for the future, and have hope that your uterus is receptive x
Wow round 19. What an amazing Ivf worrior you are. Thankyou for writing back... You gave me courage. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️xxxxxxxx
I had 2 failed FET, one FET ended up in ectopic pregancy , before my BFP in the 4th FET. All of them I transferred 2 embryos, best quality. So, don't loose hope! Pregnancy is a lottery unfortunately... cry what you need to cry, and then keep trying again! It will happen.
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Thankyou all for taking time to reply to me. I apreciate this so much. Im going for my beta in an hour an will have result tomorrow. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🤞🤞🤞🤞♥️♥️♥️♥️ Hoping a little miracle occurs
Oh gosh I’m sorry to hear this, such a tough break. Sometimes there are no reasons and it’s so 🤬 frustrating. Sending big hugs xx
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Hcg 0.5miu.... Super negative beta hcg. Not even a sign of possible implantation. So very sad. Anyone has a suggestion on what I should be asking the clinic?
I'm so sorry Lorita, it's such a heartbreaking experience to get a negative especially with PGS tested embryo. My advise is to go for a laparoscopy and hysteroscopy (they can be done at the same time while you are under). In my case, my tubes weren't just blocked but were filled with fluid which hinders implantation. They removed my tube and the next transfer worked. Of course you may not have this issue, but they can only truly know if they look inside. I wish you all the strength to get through this heartbreak and then go again! You will get there xxx
Thankyou so much for sharing this. Im definatley pushing for a laparoscopy and hysteroscopy next. Im very dissapointed at my clinic i emaild them yesterday morning about my negative test and they have not even replied yet, not even to tell me to stop the medicine
That's very disappointing! If you've no embryos left with them, might be worth looking into a new clinic. Sometimes a new doctor/fresh pair of eyes can find that missing puzzle!
I only have 1 mosaic embryo left. Ill definatley look into a new clinic as i feel this clinic has a one size fits all Approach. No. Blood tests or monitoring during Fet cycle. Is it normal?
Oh the one size fits all approach is so frustrating! My clinic was the same in that they don't do any bloods during FET cycles. After my first failed one, I insisted to get my progesterone level checked during my ERA cycle. My levels were very low so for the FET they changed me to injections+gel instead of just the gel. Again, I insisted that my levels are checked again the day before transfer, and levels were higher thankfully. But they wouldn't have done any of this of I didn't advocate for myself... It's very annoying that many of us have to question things, but unfortunately we do. There are very thorough clinics out there though who don't leave any stone unturned!
Im definatley changing clinic. I self funded all my treatment. Thankyou for sharing dear.... Knowing there might be things that have not yet been discovered gives me hope❤️
I'm so sorry to hear this. Sending you big hugs x.
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So sorry it has not worked, it’s so unfair when everything looked so perfect 😞. I know how painful it is to see a completely white FRER. It’s so rubbish and cruel. Sending you big hugs, cry as much as you need to and look after yourself xxx
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I'm so sorry to see your news. It's so hard when we know everything was perfect and it still doesn't work. Big hugs.xx
So true. Ill have to get myself together and star fresh. I just don't know what more to test for. 😔😔😔😔
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