Mood swings during cycle?

[aamiller405]

Did anyone else feel crazy during their cycle? I can be fine one minute then screaming the head of my husband or just sitting crying.. The poor man doesn't know what to do 🙈

Hoping I can at least reassure him that this is normal and I haven't just lost it

[MissSaoPaulo]

Totally normal, you're chock full of hormones as well as feeling pressure and expectations for the cycle - he's not to take it personally

[Nobabyyet]

I gave been crazy like the hulk. It's totally normal and unfortunate for our poor husbands but mine was always saying he feels useless in this so i've told him this is what he can do to help....just hang in there, try not to take it personally and give me a bi-ball/ not react back. Sometimes he gives me a hug just after i've gave off to him. So have to say he has been good and you wont be able to help feeling a little guilty but try not to beat yourself up.x

[emmab178]

Oh yes. I find buserlin completely takes over me. I wonder if they have it to heavy weight boxers what blood bath fights would happen.

I find i can't control the rage then burst into tears about it.

[aamiller405]

Thank you for your replies.. Helps me feel a little less crazy knowing I'm not alone lol

[Hidden]

I sometimes get a bad temper just before I am due to come on that I have a hard time curbing as this month the week leading up to coming on was full of appointments like doctors appointments which I find stressful, a job interview on Friday when I did my very best, getting a parcel sorted out from ups the useless parcel service as I had gone to the pick up place last Monday to pick it up as they claimed it had been delivered there last Friday I popped in and no it hadn't!

I hate that company as they lie and they have lied before when I had ordered things and they have been the courier saying things have been delivered and no they haven't! The people at the pick up point laughed when I called them the useless parcel service!

Tuesday was horrendous as the doctors had been running late as I was due to be seen at 4.50pm and didn't get seen until 5.30pm but no problem I don't have to see them again now for a long time so the wait was worth it although it does get very frustrating!

Then earlier that day I was seen at work by the line manager after I had sworn at a colleague on the way into there the previous week and they claimed they wanted to help me and I snapped back saying I didn't want their help and that I didn't want to talk about it! They had tried to get me to talk. I had said that I didn't want to talk about it calmly but they kept on so I snapped and made it clear I didn't want to talk about it and not to ask me again and they could stick their stupid help! I resent the way they speak to people which is why I reacted like that and they were taken aback. Being due to come on speaks the truth!

With cursing at a colleague on the way into work what it was was she is a union rep and they let me down when I went to them for help about bullying a couple of years ago and things have festered since and came to a head that day.

The department manager was nice when I told her what was wrong and had said about forgiving them. I said I would forgive myself first and then move onto them as when I talked to my friends yesterday they said about seeing things from the union reps side as they were under the bullying manager and how they had acted like they did as they were frightened of facing her wrath like I did and think trade unions should be made illegal as they cause more problems than they solve!

The lady concerned isn't in next week so it will have to be the week after when I see her for a chat about things as I had refused this week as I was too angry to think clearly so time always helps and I will see the nice department manager tomorrow and explain that I said I didn't want to talk to the lady concerned last week as I was angry and can she come with me to speak with her next time she is in as I realise I was hasty when I said I didn't want to talk to her and feel differently now I have had time to talk and think things over.

[aamiller405 in reply to Hidden]

Oh gosh sounds like you've had a very stressful time indeed. You're definitely right to give yourself time to calm down first and hopefully you will get it all sorted out now soon xo