Totally stolen from Facebook but for those of you in 2ww here is a rough guide to what happens each day

Hopefully will help with visualisations. Remember it is a rough guide so not every day will be exactly the same for everyone but hope this helps xx

[Masha111]

Hi camillage that was nice of you to post

Just to follow that, there is a post 3 day and post 5 day transfer on the following website:

fertilitysmarts.com/implant...

[Masha111]

How are you anyway. Hope all is going smoothly for you x

[Hidden in reply to Masha111]

You know what it's like. I am about 3 weeks behind you and trying not to wish my life away. I think the worry never goes, you just have to adjust to it and know it will always be there - mindfulness required massively for that. How are you? Xx

[Masha111 in reply to Hidden]

Hiya. Some days i have energy other days im drained out. Thankfully my other symptoms are easing off...i do have strange dreams and waking up 2 or 3 times in the night lol. That was nice of you to offer to meet another lady from here. Wish i was nearby lol.

[Hidden in reply to Masha111]

It's always good to know we are "normal" lol x

[Kcrochet]

Thanks that's so thoughtful of you to share. Will try to keep visualising 😀

Can't help but wonder if there's an equivalent 'What happens to your mind after a 5 day transfer'...

Day 1: feeling strangely calm and philosophical

Day 3: Doubt sets in

Day 4: the woman becomes attached to google

Day 5: insanity begins

Day7: levels of insanity double every 48 hours

Day9: levels of insanity are now high enough to be detected in the urine

🙈🙈🙈

[Hidden in reply to Kcrochet]

That's about right, although Google never goes ha ha xx

[sarahharas in reply to Kcrochet]

To continue.

Day10: Levels of insanity can be detected by the people in your environment. You are ready to voluntarly admit yourself to a psychiatry.

[Hidden in reply to sarahharas]

It seems like otd is 3 years away and you start to think about peeing on a stick early.... insert into day 3 xx

[sarahharas in reply to Hidden]

And then you do it although you know that it is gonna be negative and nevertheless you start crying because you think its over!

I think I am mental!

[Hidden in reply to sarahharas]

If it's any help we are all the same. Although I did test early this time as oh was leaving the country for a month... x

[sarahharas in reply to Hidden]

My mood keeps changing on a hourly basis from knowing that it worked out and already decorating the babies room in my thoughts to calculating when my next cycle of injections are starting. I need to pee every hour, plus checking if my spotting came back. My OH is away, I have nobody to talk to, my closest friends are all back home. I am literally insane today, I have no idea how I am going to survive the weekend. Today I can at least distract myself with work.

[Hidden in reply to sarahharas]

Hi

That's awful for you. I am in Edinburgh if you want to meet for a coffee (or something non caffeine like which is similar) over the weekend. Xxx

[Kcrochet in reply to sarahharas]

I totally hear you Sarah! I knew this wait was going to be tough but I hadn't expected to feel so wildly out of control. I'm so sorry you're on your own. I've been doing loads of these yoga videos (just the gentle ones), I find the woman really sweet and comforting..

youtube.com/channel/UCFKE7W...

I'm going away this weekend with three girlfriends - so typical that the one weekend I'm away without hubby is OTD (sunday). I've only told one of them about our ivf and would rather not tell the others but worried they're going to think I've gone totally insane (which I have). When do you test?

Sending hugs xxx

[sarahharas in reply to Kcrochet]

Thank you! I am doing the same yoga already since months, I really like her as well

Yeah, I am usually a very calm person, but these last days are just so much up and down. I dont really have an OTD (no IVF), I am just waiting for my period to come, which should arrive latest by Monday. I am still thinking that it will, so I did not set a day yet for my mind when I will be brave enough to do a test.

I really hope the weekend away can give you some nice distraction and I am sure they will not notice

[Kcrochet in reply to sarahharas]

Good luck! xx

[Masha111 in reply to Kcrochet]

I like this version better lol

[EmJen in reply to Kcrochet]

Ha. Love this. Honestly. I’m definitely losing the plot 🤯🤦‍♀️

[Foodie23 in reply to Kcrochet]

This is hilarious! 😂 xx

[Hidden]

Thanks Camillage,3 weeks to go before we go so this will come in really handy for 2ww.

How are you feeling? Xx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Eeek, not long now. Hope you are relaxing as much as possible before stepping back on the merry-go-round? I am as anxious as ever but trying to ignore that as I have decided it's never going to go away so I have to learn to live with it. Xx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Work as crazy as ever so not had much time to relax but plan on having a duvet weekend 🙂.

It's totally normal to be anxious but try and relax and enjoy being pregnant,harder said than done I know xx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Yes. Definitely, this is the furthest I have got and I am kind of in a little bubble. Duvet weekend sounds amazing x

[Jenjen84]

How funny, I was only just thinking about what could be happening inside right now!! Hopefully this post is true for us all! ❤️ Xxx

[Hidden in reply to Jenjen84]

Definitely. Hope all goes well for you and your sanity over the next phase! Xx

[Jenjen84 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you! I have reached the mentally insane already and I’m only 3 days in!! 😂 Watching back to back friends and baking as many cookies as one could possibly bake in the few days I have off just to keep my mind (and fingers) away from google!! Hope everything is good with you xxx

[Hidden in reply to Jenjen84]

Decided that I am going to actually be insane forever now (well, more than before) so I am trying to figure out how to adjust to that. He he.

Hope all goes well for you xx

[kirstyblue]

I’m 10dpt..but hospital have given me a test day of tomorrow so holding out till then ..:🙈🙏🤞🤞 xx

[Hidden in reply to kirstyblue]

Oooh, fingers and toes crossed for you xx

[kirstyblue in reply to Hidden]

Thank you...am not feeling confident at all but you never know xx

[Hidden in reply to kirstyblue]

Keep hold of any sliver of positivity, you just have one more sleep to go. Just remember that no amount of fretting will change what's happened or not. Try to focus on a positive outcome. And breathe xx

[Core]

Thanks for posting this really useful xx