Sorry if this isn't the type of topic usually asked, I'm just really struggling with this.
Do your friends support you?
Do they just text and ask how you are?
My 'friends' NEVER do.
They both just had babies, one friend was told she couldn't have children, 8 years of no protection and she got pregnant by accident.
Out of everyone, she knows what I am going through, but she has her baby now and seems to forget, she never asks me how I am, she never texts me to ask how my surgeries went, a week after my big surgery I text her to see how she was because her dad had died a month ago and I kept asking how she was. She was only interested in the gossip of my diagnosis and then nothing.
I popped to Mallorca last week and was going to see her, told her I'd be in on Wednesday, she never bothered to tell me she was off sick that night.
I just feel that through the worst time of my life, would it hurt to text and ask how your friend is, who's whole world has fallen down?
Or am I being too sensitive and over reacting?
I make excuses for them, saying well they are busy with their babies, well her dad died, but she's always posting in Facebook...
Nobody asks me how I am with all this, apart from my fiancé.
Thank you In Advance xx