I feel like every one around me is falling pregnant, and why am I having problems ? What have I done ? I don't feel jealous just abit sad

[Sar75]

Does anyone else feel this way?

[Sunnysarah01]

Yes babe I feel exactly the same x I'm 26 years old with unexplained infertility and have done 9minths on clomid and still no baby x have been trying for 3years and nothing x I always think why me x and I get very sad seeing babies etc x

I wish u luck xxx

[Mooster1]

Defo feel like this Hun. Everything around me is to do with babies! Friends are pregnant, adverts on the tv/radio are baby, magazines there's no escape. I'm unexplained too x

[jsth1979]

You are in the right place for sharing these thoughts and feelings. I have good and bad days. It's very difficult sometimes as two of my best friends have babies and they are brilliant with them and I have to try really hard not to show my emotions about failing to get pregnant...

I find focusing on something else helps... While we're waiting for IVF to begin I'm throwing myself into my hobbies

[hopeandfaith1985]

I know exactly how you feel, me and my partner have been trying for 4 years and finally on the road to becoming parents, we are starting our IVF treatment shortly! For the past 4 years everyone I know has either had a baby or become pregnant, I became so bitter and angry/upset/sad and it was destroying me and my relationship. Since being referred to our Clinic everything is starting to feel normal and we both know it's going to happen eventually, keep thinking positive hun, good things happen to good people and you will be a mum good luck... spreading baby dust xx

[Katm123]

I think it's so hard for anyone not going/ gone through this to understand, it's not like you begrudge anyone else their baby joy, it's just that you feel so beyond broken you just can't bear to hear it. I think you just have to be a little but self absorbed to get through it!xx