I’m messaging on here because my husband is asleep off nights and I can’t wake him and so I feel quite alone but I’ve just had pink when I wiped at the loo. I’m trying not to feel devastated but I’m struggling. Is this normal at 8dp5dt? I thought implantation bleeding would be earlier? I feel so upset and can’t see the wood for the trees.
Has anyone else had any experience of this? I’m not due to officially test until the 3rd feb so this is going to be such a horrendous wait!
Really looking for some reassurance as I am starting to feel so upset.
Thanks in advance
Xx
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I am also in tww with no symptoms and negative urine test .
Officially I have my test due on Feb 4th 2020.
We are in the same boat...
I do feel my this second fet also will not work 99% but waiting for a miracle to happen on official date that 1% miracle ..
I have no option too to discuss with my hubby all my feelings coz they won't understand but even I am devastated and ashamed of myself for being in such situations....
Regarding your pink spot finger cross hope it's implantation bleed and may God show some miracle to us..
I totally understand what you feel ,those helpless thoughts where no one can understand....but I wish you all the best and let's hang in till our official date😔😔😔
It’s so bloody hard isn’t it? Life just feels so unfair at times....I feel like I’m doing all the right things, eating a healthy balanced diet and resting as well as taking walks etc each day...there’s a girl my husband works with and is in her first 12 weeks of natural conception yet she is eating anything and everything in sight, drinking so much coffee and doing what she wants and yet she is able to remain pregnant, it feels so unjust! Sorry for rant, I just feel so frustrated and upset!
I really hope this 2we goes quick for you and you get a BFP Sayusayme xx
I had pink spotting on days 7, 8 and p after 5det. day 8 it was actually dripping when I went to the loo. I thought I was out but it turned out to be a positive pregnancy (which I sadly lost but much later than this). Sounds really positive - good luck x
I am also in the middle of my tww. I am 9dp3dt and yesterday I basically got my period. I have been bleeding heavily for the past two days. My nurse told me it could be anything so I shouldnt worry yet, and that I won’t know for sure until the blood test this Wednesday Feb 5. I completely understand what you are feeling, as I am also surrounded by people who are pregnant and “didn’t really want kids but used an app to get pregnant, etc.” I feel your pain. I think it’s a good sign for you that despite my heavy bleeding, my nurse was not worried. I have seen a lot of posts from women with light spotting who ended up getting a bfp. I will keep my fingers crossed for you!
Ahh thanks for the reply...unfortunately I know for sure I’m definitely out because I’m really heavily bleeding and have cramps too. Clinic have told me to continue with pessaries until tomorrow which is frustrating because I know it’s pointless! Anyway so I will do my test tomorrow which I know will be negative and then I will pick myself up and move forward! It’s totally crap but I am used to this now so it’s just life! I’ve come into work today and found out a girl who has just come back off maternity is pregnant again! Life isn’t fair!
Anyway I wish you so much luck with your 2ww and hope you get a BFP!
😞 I’m sorry. I do have cramps as well. As my nurse said, “please don’t worry yet, you won’t know until you get your test results.” This is obviously near impossible but I almost am more calm now that I know in my mind it isn’t happening this round. I will still keep my hopes up for you ❤️. And no, life isn’t fair at all. Not even close.
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