Hi guys.im a health girl,im18, I am thinkin... - Diabetes India
Hi guys.im a health girl,im18, I am thinking,to marriage with a man who have diabetic 1,now iwant to know,what probles should,I consider
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Thank you so much
What if, he had diabetes 1 after marriage ?
It is a very expensive disease. How old is he and what is his income?
about 23-24 . he is studyng dentist
If you are particular about getting married to him please go ahead.Please note that you will have to live with many problems associated with diabetes and may be in the long run your children also.As on date you are not diabetic, I suppose.It will be a different story if you are also diagnosed diabetic at a later date.Please go to a diabetes specialist and ask for his advice.He will explain still better.
yes,thanks alot .. 
im really confused ...
Don't be confused, this is not a right match for you. I am sure you will find a better one for you, just believe in God, a firm belief indeed. This is your once in a lifetime decision which is going to effect your entire life. Diabetes has many associated problems. What happens in future is not in our hand but we have to decide according to our present situations. And this indicates to another direction. I hope you will get some confidence to say 'NO' but very very politely and wisely so that his feelings are not heart.
Zafar
I must congratulate you on taking such a bold decision,if the decision is yours.You have taken right step towards knowing the future implications .Please log on to net and search diabetes1,you will find every thing you want to know.If it for you to decide whether to marry or not,take informed and balanced decision .After all it is your life.Please, please, don't let emotion over power you.GOD help you in guiding to correct and right conclusion.
surely you are right..god bless you ..thanks alot ..
and one point is im really emotionally ! extremly !
Your parents would have your best interest in mind. Speak out your heart to them and obey what they say because you would then be blessed in the long run. You are too young to take such drastic decision. Keep an open mind. Weigh the pros and cons. This involves your entire life and not just a few years. Take good counsel and think, think and think before you can commit. All the best to you, my girl.
Dear, wisdom is more important that emotions. This is your once in a lifetime decision which is going to effect your entire life. So don't be confused, search for another suitable match.
no im health... , i dont know, i am thinking about others so! but.. i think about a point that what if he is very good boy..but he had diabet.. i dont know ..really dont know what should i do
i really dont know what should i do :(..
and also this is just a suggestion .. i am just thinking about him ,no more..
It is clear you have not fallen in love with him. Also you are too young. You must give yrself at least 7- 8 yrs and build a career first. Excel in yr field. Some one will come in yr life one day who will carry you on his horse. Marriage should be on foundation of love, not pity. This guy is only 23-24 and still studying. He is just emotionally blackmailing you. Did u discuss this with yr mother?
Yes, I appreciate Mr. Anil Gupta Ji for his right advice.
If you are in love, how does it matter?
Right advice, dear Naturo.ratna
