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I have posted on here before, so some of you understand what I have gone through and what I’m going through. Yesterday I received an email from the detective saying she needs more medical information from Leighton hospital and from Tenerife. On the 17th of December 2020 I escaped my abuser and returned to the UK from Tenerife.

I want to know why it is taken so long for the police to collect all the information and hand it over to the prosecution service. Nearly 5 years people I am going through hell. not only emotionally, psychologically and physically. He is now lying about the finances.. but he’s told so many lies to judges that two judges, have told him he is a liar. the one in Tenerife stopped the case and warned him, the one in England would not even attend because he had not given the right documentation over so now we are in High Court. I believe it happens in February 2025.

Five women a week in the United Kingdom are murdered by the violent abuses husband /partners. I am blessed that I was not one of these women, sometimes it feel that I am just dragging down in mud trying to survive it’s so difficult.

last week I drove into a puddle which turned into a lake, I telephoned the RAC I am insured with explain to them what happened And they told me we don’t deal with anyone who is in water. Phone 999.

So I telephoned 999 and they sent a fire brigade, these men were like angels, like shining stars. They took complete control. They help me as I was having a panic attack and being disabled I couldn’t get out of the car. The water was covering my waist. They were absolutely outstanding.. they pushed my car until it reached dryland then they open the door and the water just poured out. They reassured me that I would be okay telling me to breathe slowly., then they dried my feet and put warm socks on and they carried me to the commanders car. The commander was lovely. He had a hot seat so I was warming up with a blanket around me from the fireman.. I have just spent £2500 getting my car repaired, Now it’s a right off. Nothing else surely. can go wrong in my life. I just want to disappear and go to sleep until all this is over., but I can’t. I have to keep on fighting. Please pray for me. Please think of me if I can do anything to help anyone who is in my situation. Please let me know. God bless you.all Liz 🙏❤️

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