I recently discovered my spouse falls every day. My mom told me this was the case last April when she visited. I just haven’t experienced it myself.
The past couple weeks we’ve had a lot of holidays off so I’ve been home more. Often, our kids tell me he fell. He never tells me. I’ll ask where a bruise came from and he won’t say. Or, he’ll say it was a week ago.
The other day I finally got him to tell me where he falls the most. The kitchen, because there’s nothing for him to grab. Which makes sense why the microwave door was ripped completely off five years ago. (Still haven’t replaced it)
The kids told me he fell outside in the street. And then we took a walk yesterday to the park and he fell down on the path. Bloody knees. Someone helped us get him up, kids were crying.
I’ve asked him if he’s ready for a walker. He refuses. Yet he says his biggest fear is falling.
I’ve had a friend of his also w/ Parkinsons, call him three times to take him to boxing for Parkinson’s patients. He won’t go.
I called his doctor but I need to return the call. I upped his devices on both sides. And he thinks it didn’t help.
Not sure what else we can do until we move to a condo.