hi i am 59 years old now. had my ileostomy 6 years ago. my husband died way b4 that. i feel great but lonely. i started on a web site to meet a nice man. what do i do with my ileostomy? i would have to tell him. what happens when fooling around? how do i make sure bag and appliance dont leak? has anyone been in this situation? what do i do? is there an ileostomy dating site?