I just wanted to post on here as I’ve had some lovely people give me advice in the short time that my mum has been poorly, unfortunately she is now on end of life care, she developed sepsis whilst in hospital and as a result is extremely poorly and none of the medicines they are giving her are helping her, her body is just too poorly to cope, she’s not in pain and she is comfortable so that’s all we can ask for.
I wish everyone good luck in this journey & I thank you for any advice you have given me along the way .
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Sepsis took my FIL 2 years ago. It was impossibly difficult but like you say, no pain or discomfort at the end.
Hold her hand, tell stories, tell her it's OK for her to go. The day my FIL died, we had all told him that morning it was OK for him to go now. Call it nonsense but I genuinely believed it helped him.
I'm sorry to read your sad news. Some people don't like this being said, but I really do believe she'll go to a better place. A place where she can live life to the full once again. Sending you hugs and positive thoughts to help you through this difficult time. X
Dear Char0127... I am so sorry for your loss. I haven't been active on here at all for a long time, as my own daughter's health has been declining rapidly. Was so saddened to see your post just now. Wishing you and your family the strength and courage to bear this tremendous loss. Hope with time you can take comfort in all the precious memories of your dear mum, which no doubt you will always hold close to you in your heart ♥️
Please remember all your happy times and childhood with your beloved Mum. Tell her all about these whilst you are with her and I am sure they will register in her mind. At least she is in no pain and by the sound of your post in a calm frame of mind. Do take care yourself and may everyone give you support too. A big hug and thoughts. x
I'm thinking of you and your mum at this difficult time. Make sure you get some rest and sleep if possible, so that when you are with her you are the best you can be in the circumstances.
I’m so sorry for your loss. You’re probably in that bubble where nothing feels quite real. Sadly you have no choice but to go withe the roller coaster of emotions that is grief. But you’re not on your own. We’re all here with you and lots of us know what it’s like. Keep the tissues handy it comes at you at the most unexpected moments but people do understand
Thank you, you are so right I am in a bubble, feel very numb and not sure what I’m meant to be doing. It’s odd to lose someone who you would always go to for advice but thank you for your message x
It absolutely does. Suddenly you’re the older generation and people look to you for support just when you need it most yourself. When it’s your second parent you really do feel orphaned. You see people going about their normal lives when your world has been turned upside down. Be kind to yourself while you’re adjusting. Big hug
my thoughts and prayers are with you. My wife developed sepsis from a c. Diff infection while in decompensated liver failure. It’s been 2 years since she passed. It’s still painful but you need think of all the good times❤️
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