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Morning all,

I just wanted to post on here as I’ve had some lovely people give me advice in the short time that my mum has been poorly, unfortunately she is now on end of life care, she developed sepsis whilst in hospital and as a result is extremely poorly and none of the medicines they are giving her are helping her, her body is just too poorly to cope, she’s not in pain and she is comfortable so that’s all we can ask for.

I wish everyone good luck in this journey & I thank you for any advice you have given me along the way .

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Millie09

Hi char0127 I'm so very sorry to hear about your mum , a blessing she is not in any pain and being well cared for .

Sending you big hugs 🫂 at this difficult time.

Linda xx

Sorry to hear this news. Wishing her and the family well.

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Aotea2012

I’m so sorry to read that. Sending you very best wishes….

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RugbyMama

So sorry to hear this.

Sepsis took my FIL 2 years ago. It was impossibly difficult but like you say, no pain or discomfort at the end.

Hold her hand, tell stories, tell her it's OK for her to go. The day my FIL died, we had all told him that morning it was OK for him to go now. Call it nonsense but I genuinely believed it helped him.

Take care xxx

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Lantana100

Also sorry to hear this news. Wise words from RugbyMama.

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ScoobyPoodle1

I'm sorry to read your sad news. Some people don't like this being said, but I really do believe she'll go to a better place. A place where she can live life to the full once again. Sending you hugs and positive thoughts to help you through this difficult time. X

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Breakfastbabe

Thinking of you and sorry to hear your mum is so poorly.

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Char0127

Thank you for all of your messages, sadly my mum passed away yesterday morning leaving a huge hole in my life 💔

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Rshc in reply to Char0127

I am so very sorry you have lost your dear mum. I hope it was peaceful and pain free. Sending you love and hugs

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teletonetapper

Please remember all your happy times and childhood with your beloved Mum. Tell her all about these whilst you are with her and I am sure they will register in her mind. At least she is in no pain and by the sound of your post in a calm frame of mind. Do take care yourself and may everyone give you support too. A big hug and thoughts. x

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Janettewhitelaw

so sorry for your looss

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Kayseylou

I’m so sorry to hear your sad news, my prayers are with you and your family. 🙏

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Mufan99

I'm thinking of you and your mum at this difficult time. Make sure you get some rest and sleep if possible, so that when you are with her you are the best you can be in the circumstances.

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