Liver cancer

[oap74]

finally got to talk to a very knowledgeable liver specialist having been trying to get some answers for months. He understood why I wanted to know and given some idea how long I can expect too live. He went into a lot of detail fully explaining all the scenarios, which is exactly what my wife and I wanted after 58 years together. My worst nightmare was becoming a burden to my wife and son, this I can now address and have done with our son. I have paid for and planned my own funeral service etc. so no worries or doubts there. My reason for this is they now know it will be months not years. And the best and final piece of advice I was given today was to concentrate on building my muscles back up which will help me keep my independence. I had followed all the advice previously given but to no avail. Now it’s up to me to use my common sense. It’s my life and I deserve this. It’s what I wanted to know. All the best to you all.

[taar]

Good luck to you, and now you are in our thoughts. Hugs

[Dogbot]

so pleased you got your answers and can now enjoy what you have and make what you can of your condition.

[Mick1414]

So sorry to hear about your diagnosis. All I can say is be upbeat as best as you can and try to prove your consultant wrong in living longer than what has been diagnosed. I have been diagnosed with liver cancer by my consultant, had a recent biopsy then waiting to see my consultant again for the results. It was he who broke the news to me and my wife a few weeks back. I am keeping a positive mind on this and will fight this terrible disease to the bitter end.

[Readlots]

I’m glad you got the answers you need and that you’ve been able to put plans in place.

I lost my Dad to cancer which went to his liver 7 years ago and my Mim to PBC 3 years ago. Our local hospice was an incredible support. People think they are all about death and dying but they are actually about making the most out of life and really helped with keeping my parents independent and kept me strong. I’d definitely recommend them for you and your family.

Re being a burden, I moved in with my parents to support them when they felt they needed it. It was a privilege to be able to spend that time with them and I wouldn’t have missed it for the world. By planning your funeral you’ve taken the hardest bit off their shoulders. Wishing you all the best