August 8th this year my son just turned 20, happily living in Colorado came home to visit for Birthday was car surfing and flew over 50 feet. Mom (me) got the phone call so I drove to Iowa City where he was airlifted and in coma for weeks not expected to live, stayed there with him, he survived.. He can now walk, talk, travel, and just got told he can drive again HOWEVER something is NOT THE SAME with him right before his 8 hour Brain surgery it's like something SNAPPED inside him now he stopped talking to me completely out of nowhere and if he does text me he says things like "I hope you kill yourself, Your just as bad as the kid who did this to him, and etc." I get TBI but I cannot understand the son I knew would never or never talked to me like this before August 8th. I'm alone and now without him, I have 2 other girls 13 & 2 and he is 20 but won't even talk to his sister or my family (cousin, Aunt or Grandmother) His dad took him home from the hospital and supposedly he is angry there too.