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What's people feelings on whats happening around them..

How worried should we be?

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Rose54

It is a worrying time

But we have to remain positive and keep busy

Thiers little that we can do to change things but we can keep safe and be kind to ourselves and others .

My heart goes out to anyone who is trying to come to terms with this on thier own

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SpiritoftheFloyd

It's an unsettling time that's for sure. There's not a lot we can do about the ongoing event itself. Yes we are at risk, but the majority of the people who have died in Italy had multiple medical problems, and there's a chance that in a different year a good proportion of them might have suffered a case of flu would have resulted in their mortality. This virus does seem to be able to transmit very easily so that's a worry, but the best thing is to look after ourselves as best we can.

I think it also helps to remember the vast majority of people who get Covid-19 recover fully and carry on with their lives.

At least the Spring is finally here so we'll be able to get outside and walk, and if you're like me get out in the garden.

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RHFaCOY in reply to SpiritoftheFloyd

Got a dog to keep me company..

in reply to SpiritoftheFloyd

Brilliant reply. I do think it is worth remembering that an awful of of the reported cases sound as if they were on their last legs. I do think the capitalist society has got well out of hand, but we have to remember we do need to retain some sort of economy to be able to fight this. I really think it is up to the people most at risk to take action and to be honest I am not witnessing it. Italy has a very aging population, a lot of the young people have upped sticks, due to their economy, it's a very fine line.

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mrsm49

It is a very serious situation indeed, however try not to worry, let the Gov do the worrying. However it is vital to follow all the advice we are given so we all get the best outcome. I for one am comforted that the Gov are following the scientists advice.

Am glad to read that you have a dog, i think they make the best company. If yr going out for lovely walk with your dog just stay 6ft away fm other people and don't pet other animals. Take care and stay safe and well x

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ali161

At first I thought this would be a minor thing, but seeing what is happening to Italy just makes me cry. All of my loved ones are in other countries. I don't know when I will see them again and I worry about them. I miss my partner and my best friend and my mum and my brother. But on the bright side, I can work at home, I can talk and look at my loved ones every day over the phone, I have a clean, safe warm house, it's relatively easy to keep my self busy and entertained even between 4 walls. I read and cook a lot and started painting. A lot of time left over to contemplate about life. I'm thankful that I'm living at this time where we can be supported by technology in so many ways, especially at times of crisis. This will pass, so let's try to not lower our spirits, let's try to find happiness in small things. This, for me, is a life lesson and one I hope to be able to share with my kids and grandkids if I ever have any!

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Rosei

I am on my own, fortunately for me my mother taught me to knit, sew and crochet, I also do a jigsaw while listening to the radio. I have an iPad and a mobile phone which seems to be in constant use, my son is absolutely insistent that I stay in isolation. I do have a garden and a greenhouse so I start all veg in the greenhouse........come to think about, I don't have a spare minute.......best of luck to you all and don't let those wonderful intensive care personal get you.

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Needtodo

Lovely comment and replies. Those who are self distancing are doing our bit by staying at home. There are lots of local volunteer oppurtunities that can be done by people at home too.

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Qualipop

Apart from the difficulty ordering food, I had two big worries. Firstly food for my dog which I have finally managed o sort out thanks to he help of a great person on here, Bless you. The second is money. I have my pension and disability paid into the post office. We had to fight hard to keep ours open) The only thing you can do with that account is draw out cash . Any left over, my husband takes down into town and pays into the bank for me. If I can't top up my bank account regularly I can't order anything online. I'm tempted to ring DWP and get it transferred straight into my bank but the thought of trying to get through to them right now doesn't appeal at all or how long it might take. I can't imagine our PO wanting to continue accepting parcels or handling cash so they could close temporarily in which case I can't get ANY money at all.

As for keeping occupied at home; EASY. It's Spring. I have a compost delivery coming and loads of veg seeds. I paint, sew, knit crochet; just finished a portrait for someone and also edit a magazine that has to be done by the end of April providing eh printers are still working.

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