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My last post was at 4pm yesterday and a lot has happened since then it’s now 8.30am on Wednesday 5th the date of my operation .

As you know I had a CT scan with contrast done yesterday eventually after it was booked at the wrong hospital but it all got sorted . My surgeon wasn’t in the hospital yesterday but looked at my CT scan remotely and sent one of his team to see me at 6.30pm last night. Unfortunately the CT scan has shown there is a growth below my breast bone which has enlarged a gland and the surgeon will need to remove some of it or all of it to be able to access my valve properly he won’t know how much until he opens me up . As you can imagine I was absolutely devastated and broke down and cried . Not what you want to hear this close to your operation, they are going to send a biopsy to the lab while I’m under the anaesthetic, my mind went into overdrive and started fearing the worse and I got myself quite stressed phoning my best mate with the crap news. He was really supportive and said all the right things but to be honest I wasn’t really there in the moment my mind was off on tangents. So I decided to go for a walk around the hospital corridors to calm down and on my return a Male nurse told me to go and shave everywhere my chest arms legs groin etc you have to stand on a sheet in the shower room to catch the hairs and it’s an electric razor. He said pull the cord once I’d done before I had a shower as he needed to check everywhere that I was hair free so I did what I was told and pulled the cord expecting the Male nurse to arrive but it was the ward sister who’s a bit of a joker who says I remind her of “Nigel forage” so I opened the door in all my naked glory and she said “ oh it’s naked Nigel “ and she checked me everywhere and let me get a shower to be honest that bit of humour couldn’t have come at a better time it kind of calmed me down and put things back in perspective a little to the point that I made myself start thinking that I can’t change whats happening so I may as well try to accept it.

I was given medication to help me sleep as I hadn’t slept the night before and they were worried that the news I’d just been given would keep me awake all night so I took the tablet and slept from about 10.30 to 3.15 sleep was only affected by me needing a wee ........ then I dropped off again only to be woken at 5.30am for my early breakfast ..... weetabix with hot milk and a hot chocolate . 7.30 am Aneathatist came to see me and fully explained what he would be doing today he’s told me after my op I’ll go to the recovery unit for a few hours still sedated whilst all my vitals are monitored then they will bring me round and once they are happy with how things are reading they will transfer me to HDU then probably back onto the ward sometime on Friday

So I’m now just waiting for things to happen I’m told it will be between 12pm and 1pm when I go down to theatre

So this will be my last post probably till the weekend thank you all for your tremendous support and kind words it’s meant a great deal and really helped

Pete ❤️

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DenHump profile image
DenHump

Amazing to hear from you on the day of your op....stay strong look forward to your next post

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Ticktock61 in reply to DenHump

Thank you so much

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Zena166

Hey Pete. Thinking of you and sending lots of hugs and positive thoughts. Stay strong one step at a time. Zena x

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Ticktock61 in reply to Zena166

Thanks Zena your a rock as always x

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Wodney1966

Gd look all everything goes ok for u

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MichaelJHHeart Star

Sorry to hear that bit of news - hope it is totally benign. Although I knew about the increased risks caused by my diabetes and PAD it did not really hit home till I went through the consent form with my surgeon's assistant towards the end of the admission procedure. After feeling down for a short while I thought back on the angina and breathlessness that was affecting me ever more and got into "Go for it" mode.

My operation was pushed back from first thing to the afternoon but not communicated so I missed out on the early breakfast and drink. Was I dry when I went down early afternoon.

Keep calm and carry on - you will be back on the ward before you know it ( but maybe not in the same place).

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Ticktock61 in reply to MichaelJH

Thanks Michael very wise my friend as always

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AndtH

Good Luck Ticktock61, I will be thinking good thoughts for you. Be brave.

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ITSINTHEBAG9

Best of everything to you

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sims789

Sorry to hear of this setback. I have thought of you often today and by the time you read this, will be on the recovery side instead of the waiting side. I wish you well for a speedy recovery

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IanMK

Sorry I’m late Pete. I missed it all !

I’m glad you eventually realised that there’s no point worrying about something you can’t change.

All the best

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Rosei

My finger are crossed,

Rosie.

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JayceeW

Keep thinking positive it does make a difference. Draw on everyone’s love and support. Our thoughts are with you.

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Heartlady1

Hi Pete... all the very best for your op. We always think the worst when given that kind of news.. .. but most times our darkest fears are not realised. I hope all goes really well with the op you smooth man ( literally .. now you are shaved 😁)

Let us know how you are when you can. Take care

Good luck Pete thinking of you. X

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Foxyhole

Good luck, I'm sure all will go well

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Nanny72

I will be thinking of you and wishing you well.

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Disciple5451

Thinking if u pray all goes well

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meashamfox

I'm with you all the way Pete, stay positive my friend ❤

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Minniestaff

Thinking of you today .Hope all goes well .

Meg

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Gowers

Hope by now you are begining to recover and it's all gone well for you

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Kaz747

Hope you’re now recovering well Pete. I had a giggle at your very descriptive prose with the shaver, the male nurse and the sister. All dignity goes out the window when in hospital. Sending hugs from downunder 🤗 🇦🇺

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DebbiB28

Be brave. We're all thinking of you!

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Chiquita1

Hope it all goes well Pete x

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Laradog

Hi Pete,

Just wanted to wish you all the best. I’m scheduled for surgery mid October and it was such a shock. Focussing on the positive in your case, they wouldn’t have known about this growth but for your heart problem and they will do their very best for you. Keep us posted when you feel well enough.

Take care

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Beekite

Hope all went well and the news is better than you fear xx

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