Hi Everyone,
I'm looking for some advice, but let me explain a little about me first.
I've been diagnosed with a dilated aortic root (5.1 cm dilation on last echocardiogram beginning of this year) and a leaky aortic valve with which I have been diagnosed with aortic regurgitation. I have seen a heart surgeon, which he said I needed to have open heart surgery, firstly to replace the aortic root with a synthetic tube, and secondly to repair or replace the aortic valve (he wasn't sure which he would do until he could see). He has already said that due to my age (which is the young age of 47), if he needed to replace the valve he would replace it with an artificial metal mechanical one. Hopefully my surgery will be very soon.!!
I am still working, (which I have been since I was told of my conditions and I was to have surgery), I have had to reduce my hours from full-time to part-time due to finding it tiring and difficult. I have had several appointments with Occi Health at work, that's how I've reduced down to part-time. I'm now getting more tired, stressed and finding it more difficult to do my job, I force myself to carry on with work. I feel sometimes that my work colleagues are fed up with having to do some of my work as well as their own, to make it easier for me, I sometimes get the impression that they don't want me to be at work, I'm too much of a risk too all those concerned at work! A close member of my family said to me that, why should i be at work, you need to make sure your fit and healthy enough and not stressed or knackered for the surgery! They won't do the surgery if your too tired or not in a healthy enough state for it. My parents want me to start my sickness from work now, because they can see how unwell and knackered I look! This got me thinking a lot about the work side of it, and this is what brought me here to this forum.
So the advice I'm seeking is, what should I do about work? Can anyone advise me please?
Thank you,
Liam.