feeling low and upset

[Annh17]

hey guysso we have been trying for nearly 2 years for our 2nd and still no luck. We have our 1st hospital appointment- referred by doctors in June. Have just found out 2 things- 1 our daughter transition date for primary school is on the same day and our hospital appointment letter says both have to attend, does anyone know if only 1 of us go attend? I really don’t wanna have to push everything back by 3-4 months2nd thing just found out a family member is pregnant with number 2, obs I’m happy for her, but absolutely devestated at the same time. She was told she would only have 1% chance of having children naturally and now she’s 2nd. Just feel very very upset right now