Hi everyone
I haven't been officially diagnosed with CA, still undergoing tests.
I suffer from depression and at the moment my anxiety levels are through the roof. My elderly mother lives alone and is putting pressure on me to visit although I have stayed away since March to protect her (except for a brief visit on her birthday) She has, however, allowed visitors from her village into her home the whole time and either doesn't understand or ignores govt advice.
I have tried to explain over the phone that me and my brother (who has been shielding due to health problems) are reluctant to visit as she has so many people in and out, but's it's not getting through. Am I being selfish?