I recently had one of my posts taken down that I think caused more confusion than it was actually worth so I thought I would share some information with you about what I have just been through after my most loved mum died. I posted it on this site and was totally overwhelmed with your fantastic response.
Well I know I have to be careful what I say as I really am not basing this on upsetting anyone just one of those things that regardless of disability that we will all have to face. I am feeling pretty broken as when I went to the funeral, I actually only stayed overnight so I didn’t do anything. I then agreed with my sister that I would go back for 5 days, this Is 200 miles from my house and took a lot of effort to get there. My sister knew I was coming and what did I face was she had stripped away every single possession that my mum had ever had. She would never have got away with it if I was still driving so again against the fact that I can no longer drive, I do have a brother and told him I was feeling pretty broken and he told me to leave it. I can’t but I have no idea what to do.
I am not trying to highlight anything as I never intend to do that but if I did upset anyone in my last post if you did even read it then it was the last thing on my mind. My heart is broken and I still have at least 3 more trips back to Wales which is going to involve anyone I can find to help me. I did tell a few people that I wouldn’t post again and thought about it, should not this site be open to what we are dealing with?
If I am really wrong then I am gone.
But there are more than a few of you that I love dearly. It is really hard to shut me up!