Good night all,
I m in long term relationship and my significant other has always been the most incredible person to me, very kind, supportive and compassionate. However being someone who has suffered from asthma from the age of 2, as well as seasonal and food allergies, migraines and insomnia, I am what most would consider poorly, although I have managed to take care of my conditions on my own and do continue to do so without involving him. Do you suppose it's selfish of me to conveniently leave out the parts of my days when i m poorly or have cons appointments or hospital trips due to asthma. I don't want my significant other thinking of me as sickly and I guess I m hoping it wouldn't be an issue it I don't mention it. Also his mother is against our marriage plans because she says i m sickly and he deserves better. Any suggestions or advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you sincerely.