Hi I am sorry if this is going to bore some people but I really dont know who else I can ask, all I get is "Oh he will be ok". So here goes both myself and my husband have COPD (my hubbys is worse than mine I think even though I have been in hosp due to mine)Well last year my hubby had to have a emergency stomach op and nearly died (ended up in a drug induced coma) This was one of the worse times of my life, even though sometimes he gets on my nerves (hes old school 72, 18yrs older than me) hes my life, and I would be lost without him. Now hes got to have a Hernia op in a couple of weeks , now Im worried sick that the same thing my happen again (it was something to do with his lungs filling up). Im trying to be strong for him but the stress is really starting to get to me and affecting my health too. How can I be sure that this wont happen. Thankyou for reading and once again I am sorry if I have bored anyone but I had to get this of my chest
Julia xx