I didn't think it would come to this but reading other members comments i feel the need ...
I had a few messges which were ignored as they were not in good taste ... ( I wont go into detail ) the certain member that sent them has now left the group ...
When the messages were ignored the group member then started to comment on my public posts these again were ignored ...for what reason i dont know or understand...
Yesterday evening on one of my posts i called time on it as everyone has a limited patience threshold myself included...
Other members got involved without knowledge of previous messages i had received.. they were asked not to get involved and i said that unwanted comments are trolling ...
I never at any point called anyone a troll just asked them to leave the situation alone .. said person wouldn't leave it alone and went on to make there own post about leaving the group (their choice ).. i feel quite sad they felt the need to get involved in something they knew nothing about then go on to make a public post to further fuel things ...if you see something that dosent involve you or anything you dont like scroll by ..
If people feel like they should or shouldn't add anything to my comments then feel free i have nothing to hide from anyone .. my patience ran out after weeks of messaging and silly childish comments which were totally unnecessary...
I thought this was a community for adults with health issues...
For me to share my pics has been an absolute winner for me im quite an insular person and was happy to share . And im very much still happy to do that ..
Maybe now i have enlightened people they will understand my reactions if not scroll by
The above comment is not said to upset anyone just giving you my thoughts matter hopefully now closed
Bad day made worse by reflecting on silly and stupid things.
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Oh dear, so sorry to hear that dear friend. I have no idea about any of this and I really appreciate your stunning photography.
Let’s hope we can now move on as you say.
Love and hugs, Carole xxxx💞🤗😘
Thankyou Carole means a lot 💓
I read the offending post BB and just want to say I understand why you are annoyed and I have had the same thing here too. I think Hanne was just defending Daveyboy as she was aware, as many of us are, that he recently had a terminal diagnosis. I thought he was taking over the site a bit but was willing to give him a lot of leeway because of this.
If you get unwanted pm messages, in case you don't know just report as it goes straight to HU. Then do a copy for admin and ask them to sort it. Then mute them and you won't see any more pm's. It's always best just to report and not respond on the site too as it just causes upset.
Many of us are very vulnerable and I am sure the last thing any of us want to do is upset anyone. I know Hanne has been very poorly. I don't know about you as all I have ever seen you post is pictures. Never anything about yourself to get to know you a bit. Not criticising you for this but just an observation. Pictures aren't really my thing but hey ho if it helps you or others than as far as I'm concerned that's fine.
I hope things settle down now and we can get to what we do best ie help and support each other through our illnesses and lives as much as we can. Take care. x
Thanks for the reply Hypercat ..
my pictures are my escapism from my condition and if i can share with others who find 5 mins of time out from daily life then i will do that ..sometimes its not about words or feeling vulnerable or how we are feeling today ...its an escapism for myself not just others ..
im not speaking for everyone here as some people find escape in other places knitting painting reading poetry crafting ..
I dont just actually post pics there are lots of posts and comments regarding my condition in fact only just on Friday i had mentioned how i was going to bed as was feeling rubbish so there is more to observe than a picture...
Daveys posts didn't bother me at all he can post all day long anyone can ..
but if i get rude messages and comments then thats where my vulnerability appears and I had asked him previously to stop on the post concerned but instead of giving up he had to come back just for another little joke trying to cheer himself up after a bad day .. (his words not mine ) seen on another post by myself.
... we all have bad days me included but i will not be the butt of somones jokes and certainly wouldn't come on here to do it to anyone myself so why tolerate it .
Im aware of the buttons and had used them ..
As for Hanne I cant say why she left as i never called her a troll ... but she seems to think i did ..she got involved in something that she knew nothing about and in her defending davey ironic as it is .. it was her choice to leave sadly .
But thanks again for your comment its appreciated x just to add to the mix you say you dont know me that well cause i never post anything other than pics yet i seem to remember a night with myself.. mike as in skischool and yourself with a few others having a disco all be it imaginary but thought i would add it on here ... from what i remember i let you borrow a green glitter skirt but that was a while ago maybe you dont remember 😌
My you have a good memory BB! That was fun wasn't it and we must do it again one day. Not sure about a green glitter skirt as I don't really wear green. Glitter yes
I must have missed your posts about you so I will make sure I read them in future. Like I said though I do take a quick look at the photo's I rarely read anything and just move on. I do read every post here even though I am quieter on here now.
I really miss Mike though. It's been over 6 months now since he passed. He would have put everything into perspective wouldn't he and put a funny post up to ease any tension. God bless him. x
My memory is good and you definitely borrowed the skirt as you had spilt a drink down yourself.. as it was an imaginary disco the green glitter didn't matter i guess 😂
Yes i miss Mike sadly and a few others gone before i still have him on my fb list have a lovley day 💙
Wow! Must do another cyber party this year - but no green please
Have a lovely day yourself. x
Think mrsmummy even had a wine 🍷 🤔
And when one is terminal the meds they may be on and their state of mind has to be considered.