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Being a carer for my husband who I sadly lost last May, I still like to read this forum from time to time to see how all you lovely people are getting on. How saddened was I to read the passing of the wonderful Ski’s (Mike). He brightened everybody’s day with his humor and wit, he certainly gave me a laugh at my lowest ebb and as you have all said he was unique and will be sadly missed. RIP Mike. 😇 Love Carole

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CDPO16

He will be missed and it is sad when we lose a forum member. It doesn't seem so long since you lost your husband and I hope that you are doing as well as can be Carole, love from another Carole xx

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Johnsel in reply to CDPO16

Thank you Carole not doing too bad, have good days and bad days. xx

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Patsy164

Hi Johnsel I totally agree with you, he was a big part of this forum. Just like you I too lost my husband in April last year and come on the forum to read and occasionally interact but I have to say I was so saddened and totally shocked with his story and passing. I think this forum is unique with so much care and compassion that some would notice that you had gone off line for a bit but to find out that person had passed with such a sad ending. Poor Charlotte would have been devastated hearing that firsthand 🥲

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CDPO16 in reply to Patsy164

Charlotte was certainly amazing this week, Mike would have been very proud of her. I hope that you are as well as can be too since you lost your husband Patsy, love Carole xx

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Patsy164 in reply to CDPO16

He would have been and if he could see us all mourning for him I think he would be happy. Thank you Carole I haven’t been well myself this year but coping with the help of my friends and family xx

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Johnsel in reply to Patsy164

Know how you feel Patsy life can be cruel sometimes, takes the good people. xx

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Mike would want everyone to live their lives as fully as they can and yes I was upset on Thursday hearing that even though he had been ill for ages it was a shock but not a surprise.

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sassy59

A lovely post Carole and good to hear from you. Thinking of you. Xxx🥰💕🤗🌸

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Johnsel in reply to sassy59

Thank you Carole hope Pete is doing OK. xxx

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sassy59 in reply to Johnsel

Not too bad thank you Carole 💕 xxx

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Young Charlotte should be so proud of herself, and I know her mum, Mike and his wife will be. Hope you all have a lovely day and take care 😊 Bernadette and Jack 🐕 xxxxxx 🌻🌻💖

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cofdrop-UK

Hi Carole, so nice to see your post, although for a very sad reason of course. I hope you are doing well.Cx

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Johnsel in reply to cofdrop-UK

Not doing too bad thanks cofdrop. Hope you are okay. xx

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tomc

I am so sad to hear you have lost your husband SKisI hope you are doing well now.

Lota of love to you , Tom

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Johnsel in reply to tomc

Hello tomc it was Ski's (Mike) who sadly passed away recently. My husband John died last May but thank you for your kind thoughts. Carole xx

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watergazer

Yes it’s saddened us all How lovely to hear from you again Carole. Take care x

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Johnsel in reply to watergazer

Thank you watergazer x

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Izb1

Nice to see you on site again Carole, I cant believe it is nearly a year ago that you lost your husband. I hope you are managing ok. Mike has left a huge hole and will be sadly missed x

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Johnsel in reply to Izb1

Hello lsb1 managing okay but miss John so much. Still cannot believe that we have lost Mike. Hope your doing okay. x

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Izb1 in reply to Johnsel

Aaaw Carole I am sure you must be missing John, it cant be easy for you but its early days and they say its gets easier with time, although I am not sure just how true this is. Take good care x

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Alberta56

Nice to hear from you Carole. Mike's death must have brought John's back to you. I hope you are doing as well as possible.

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Johnsel in reply to Alberta56

Thank you Alberta, yes it does bring it all back, although it doesn’t really go, I think about him daily. Hope your doing okay. xx

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Alberta56

Hello Carole, it would be crass to say i know how you feel, but my dear brother lost his beloved wife a couple of years ago and it left a great big hole in his life. I'm okay, thank you for asking, but finding it increasingly hard work to look after my husband ,who has dementia. Still we soldier on.xxx

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Johnsel in reply to Alberta56

Feel for you Alberta dementia such an awful illness. Keep strong xx

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