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I am sorry to say that I lost my dear husband John last Wednesday. I am devastated to lose my best friend and to see him suffer trying to breathe at the end, what a cruel disease PF is. Thank you all for your advice and wishing you all the best and a much better year now the nightmare is nearly over. Lots of love Carole and Rosie xx

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HungryHufflepuff

I am so sorry to know this. My sincere condolences to you. Sending you lots of love and good wishes.

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peege

Oh Carole I'm so very sorry and send my heartfelt condolences to you and Rosie. Thinking of you ❤

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Spacecat1

So sorry for your sad news RIP x

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CDPO16

So sorry to hear of your loss. Sincere condolences to you and Rosie.

That is so sad and distressing for you to see him suffering. A lot of people will be sending you hugs me amongst them. Don & Black Cat xx

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PentreathVolunteer

What sad news Carole. I hope you have family and friends who can support you in this sad time.

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Mollie01

So sorry to hear this. Condolences to you and Rosie, Mollie xx

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teenieleek

That is such sad news. My condolences to you.

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Caspiana

Hello Carole,

I am so very sorry to read your post. You have all my sympathy and love. I hope you will let us know how you are when you feel up to it.

May you remember the love more than the loss. With much affection and a gentle hug,

Cas and Chom xx 🥀

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Johnsel in reply toCaspiana

Thank you darling Cas for the lovely red rose. I will never forget all the love and help you gave me. Take care of yourself. Love and hugs Carole and of course Rosie 💘💘

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Caspiana in reply toJohnsel

You know where I am. Love and hugs to you too. xxxx ❤️

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madonbrew

Dear Carole and Rosie,

I’m really sorry to hear of your great loss.

Hold close to your all your precious memories !

Love from Dee x

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Croydonia

So sorry to hear this, I hope the pain will go soon, leaving you with happy memories of your life with John. Best wishes to you both.

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Shortlungs

So sorry to hear your sad news condolences to you and Rosie

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sassy59

Dear Carole, I’m so very sorry to hear such sad news. I know John had been ill for a long time but he really didn’t deserve to suffer.

Sending you love and hugs and keeping you in my thoughts. Carole xxxx

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Rebecca6

I am so sorry for your loss. God be with you xx

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tomc

My deepest condolences to you and your family. ❤️

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Oshgosh

I’m so sorry for your loss. B very kind to yourself x

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Lizzie34

Carol, I am so sorry that you have lost your mate. I feel your pain as I have been there myself. God be with you

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Blackbird8

I'm so very sorry to hear of your sad loss... condolences to you and your family 💜

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Biofreak

I am so sorry for your loss. As a carer for a husband with IPF I fully understand how you feel about the suffering and struggle to breathe. A cruel disease for sure. My heart goes out to you. Xx

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pegbl

Carole I'm so sorry to hear you very sad news, it will be heartbreaking for you. My deepest condolences to you. Xxx

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2greys

This such sad news Carole having followed John's journey via your PMs. Take a little heart from knowing that his suffering is finally over. Now it is time for you to take a well deserved rest as well after being constantly by his side, right up to his last moment, suffering in your own way with him. My sincerest condolences.

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Johnsel in reply to2greys

Thank you 2greys for all your wonderful advice you gave me and constant information you give to everyone. Having real trouble being able to access Health Unlocked (sheer fluke today). Take care of yourself and breatheasy. Love to you and Sharon. 🥰🥰

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Hollyjt

So sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences. Holly 💖x

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mikeadams51

May he rest in peace and may you take comfort in all the good years you had together

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Damon1864Volunteer

I am so sorry to hear your sad news, please accept my condolences. You have all your happy memories he will always be with you. Thinking of you and sending lots of hugs and love. Try to have a lovely day and take care 😊 Bernadette and Jack 🐕 xxxxxx

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MELNEL

That's devastating news Carole. I know exactly how you feel at this moment, to lose a loved one, friend and husband.May his soul rest in peace. 🌹🕯️🌹

Sending you lots of hugs, 🌹🌹🌹

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watergazer

Sorry to hear of John’s passing away. It must be awful to watch a loved one suffer so much. Take solace that he is no longer in pain and hold on to those wonderful memories in your hearts. Take care of yourself Hugs to you and Rosie. 🤗🤗🤗🤗Anita xx

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skischool

Dear Carole please accept my condolences on the passing of John.you did what only a soul mate and best friend can do and cared for him until the moment he left this world and he will have found great comfort in what you did for him.Please try to find some time to rest and heal yourself as i know from experience how exhausting both physically and mentally that process can be.

Love Skis and Scruffs x

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Johnsel in reply toskischool

Thank you Mike and of course you know how devastating a bereavement can be. Take care of yourself. Love Carole and Rosie xx

So sorry to hear this. Best wishes to you both and my sincere condolences. x

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Osha

I feel so sad for you Johnsel. Words are not enough but just know how many people on this site are praying and thinking of you

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judes

Sending love and condolences to you both

Please give yourself time to grieve and rest

Love and hugs

J

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Carnival567

I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I send my sincere condolences x

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LizPat30

I am so sorry to hear your desperately sad news, please accept this huge hug from me. All my love xxx

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Annie31

My sincere condolences to you and your family at this time. May John now rest in peace x

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moogle

I'm so sorry.

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RoadRunner44

Such a sad time for you all. Yes, you have lost a well loved husband and friend but you have also done a wonderful thing by caring for your husband in his time of need. He's at peace now but you are devastated and are left to pick up the pieces. I'm sending you a hug and kind wishes to help you over this distressing time.

Xxx

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Solily

You have my deepest sympathy. May good memories help get you through this sad time. Please take care of yourself.

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Katinka46

I am so sorry to hear this, a very sad time for and your family.Thank you for posting.

With love and all sympathy

Kate xx

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Kimlu

So sorry for your loss xxx

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Gingeros

So sorry for you loss. RIP John. ⚘xx

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Gladwyn

I’m so very sorry to read this. Please accept my sincerest condolences on your loss. 🥀

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BreatheasyBe

So sorry for your loss. RIP x

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Timepiece

Sorry to hear you sad news ❤️⏱

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Jaybird19

I am so sorry to hear your sad news. It is truly awful to see someone you love suffering like that. The memory will never leave you but it will get easier and you will remember the good times.

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Patk1

Thinking of u at ths sad time xxx

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r0yalalbert

So sorry to hear of your sad news.sending hug.x

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Lemon7

Sorry to hear your sad loss. Condolences to you and your family.

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Kristicats

So sad for you Carole and Rosie it’s been such a battle for you all. Please think about the happy times and photos you’ve shared together . Love Christi 😘❤️

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ledge

I am sorry to hear of your great loss of someone who filled your heart and soul. I wish him eternal peace and you, all the love and comfort from those all around you to sustain you at this sad time.

With love ...ledge

X

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kennek18

Sure words are not enough. Sorry for your loss! Condolences and I hope you will find peace!

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Trajam17

Thinking of you and family at this time. God comfort you all x

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Danielmystar

So very sorry to hear such sad news thinking of you and Rosie sending big hugs .x

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Johnsel

Thank you all for your kind words, I don’t know what I would have done without all your helpful posts. Having real trouble with accessing posts at present but I will drop in now and again. Keep strong all of you wonderful people. Carole xx

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Lina-61

I'm sorry to hear of your sad loss condolences to you and your daughter thinking of you ❤xx

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alyvonne

So sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences. Sending you lots of love xx

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ostiad

My sincere condolences to you and your family. RIP ❤️ xx

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Alberta56

So sorry to hear this. Condolences to both of you. xxx

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kitchengardener2

Sincere condolences to you and Rosie. Stay strong, God bless

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Trishe

I'm so sorry to hear this sad news , my love znd thoughts ard sent to you and Rosie xBreathe easy John and fly high with the Angels R.I.P

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garshe

My sincere Condolences on the loss of your Beloved John May he rest in peace and you will find comfort with all those around you. 😥💔xxSheila

I am very sorry to hear about your husband. My condolences to you and your family. Thinking of you at this sad time.

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B0xermad

Hi Johnsel,so sorry for your loss, thinking of you today.

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sandravale

Love and prayers

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Kitt1880

So sorry to hear of your loss. Sending love and will keep you in my thoughts xx

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Thepainterswife

So very sorry 😞 xx

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Badbessie

My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.

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rachelmi

I just wanted to say I’m so sorry for your loss. It must be such a difficult time for you. Take good care 😔

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nina30795

So sorry about your loss.I wish you strength in this difficult time 💜

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Izb1

So sorry for your loss Carole, condolences to you and your family 🥀 x

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Beachballs

So very sorry to hear your sad news, please accept my sincere condolences and know you will get the strength to get through this. 🌷

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Eastend555

sorry for your loss take care

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jasm

I’m so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you. Over a year on since I lost my mum and I still feel overwhelmed by those final memories. I hope you have good support around you to comfort you.

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Lala8960

So sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you. x

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Buzzytruk

So sorry to hear your sad news .....sincere condolences you you and your family. There will be some hard days ahead ,. Remember to look after yourself.

Jo ...

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andersBE

So sorry to hear it... I have something similar (PPFE) and I lost my wife to Covid last year... AT least your husband had you by his side... Like I have my kids by my side....

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Walkwalkwalk in reply toandersBE

Losing your wife in the Covid pandemic must have been so painful. It will still be raw with so many things lost to you. Thank you for reaching out and I hope that you and your family find strength in each other. I also have PPFE and it can feel isolating. There are so many similarities to PF however and this group can help. My very best wishes

Grace

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Shirleyj

So sorry to hear this sad news, sending you love and virtual hugs xxx((( 💓))) 🌹🌹🌹

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HighGables

So sad for you and Rosie. I know the pain and am sending you a loving hug. Thinking of you both. Jax

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Thinkhealthy

So sorry to hear such sad news . Can I join my condolences with those of everyone else here. X

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HollyBoyd

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss and my thoughts are with you at this very sad time. Sending my love and hugs 🤗🤗🤗 Carol xxx❤️❤️❤️

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Dedalus

So sorry to hear you lost your husband last Wednesday - so very sad. Condolences to all his family and friends. May he rest in peace, and I hope you find the strength to bear this terrible loss x

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Sops

Such sad news, please accept my sincere condolences , sending you love.

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Walkwalkwalk

Myvcondolences Card as you go through this so difficult time. Take care of yourself and I hope that happier memories will dull your pain of the moment. Love to you and Rosie

Grace

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Jaysha

I am very very sorry, Carole. I lost my mum last year to the same thing. Take care.

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Becky130777

So sorry for you loss x

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ninelives

Words are insufficient at a time like this.Keeping you and your family in our thoughts and hearts.

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Bingo88

I am so sorry for your loss of your Husband. It's a very difficult time. I hope you have someone to support you and come to terms with your loss. Please take care and i hope you can enjoy life again once you have come to terms with your loss. Brian

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Gingerapple

Hello,I am so sad to hear your news. 😔Sending you loving thoughts and strength.♥️❤💯

Love Bev

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Mavary

I’m so sorry that you have lost your Husband. My Husband had IPF so I understand what both he and you have gone and are going through. It makes you want to stamp and scream ( why can’t they do something about it.) but sadly there isn’t a cure. I had been married to my Husband for 51 years. I lost him seven years agoI found this group helped me so much so please stay on here. If you need any help then please pm me. My thoughts are with you.

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marchtomay

sorry to hear of your sad loss. Thinking of you xx

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Sootycat

I am so sorry to hear this. Sending condolences and I hope you have a network of love and support. Remember the good times always. Hugs 💕

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johnderby

So sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and your family. John

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Ergendl

So sorry for your loss. How awful it must have been to watch him suffering in his last days. Virtual ((((hugs)))) and condolences to you and your family.

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bobbysgirl1

I’m so very sorry, I know how different this is for you.

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jackdup

What terrible news. I am so sorry to hear that, my condolences.

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JerryMaren

O I’m so sorry 2 here this. Sendin virtual hugs n comfert xxx

So sorry for your sad loss. Sending you sincere condolences and healing 💕

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Aingeful

Sending you love and hugs..So sorry.xxx

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winnabago

Prayers for you and your family.

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dunnellon

My condolences to you and your family. So sorry for your loss.

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Busybee57

Sending my love and condolences to you and your family and hoping you may find comfort in your happy memories together ❤️❤️xxx

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hsoni30

Sorry to here that. May God give pease to his Soul and strength to you to bear this loss. I had same situation in 1997 when my mother was struggling for hear life and after hear death if i think for my side it was very bad but if i think for her side she got end of her never ending struggle.

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Melringrose

I’m so sorry 😢 absolutely heartbreaking. Take care of yourself xx

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Blackcat99

So sorry to hear this sad news, Carole. We will be thinking of you, your family and friends at this time. 😘

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Sharp5Flat13

So sorry, Carole. My sincere condolences.

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20WildRose19

Heartfelt condolences to you both. Such sad news, stay strong. X

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BionicLady

Please accept my condolences for the loss of your best friend and husband. I am sure your love will never be forgotten and always in your heart 🥀

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PLCHnME

Carole and Rosie I am so sorry at your loss. It so hard to watch someone you love trying to breathe and knowing that they have very little room left in their lungs that are actually capturing oxygen for them. My heart goes out to you knowing that you would have had to take steps to ease his suffering as I had to with my father as my 7 other siblings where not emotionally capable of being able to do it. It will take you time to get use to the lose and grief. But always remember our community is always here for you to talk to you or to just listen. Just remember he is always with you in your heart he will never leave there. I still talk to those I have loved and lost that were very dear to me and I do believe they have answered me in different ways. With a week of constantly finding dimes everywhere to a dream or a family member answering a question I had put forth to one of them. He will stay with you and watch over you but most of all he will want you to move on with your life once you have finished grieving for him. Just remember he is no longer in pain or having difficulty breathing. Blessed be.

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Keenan10

I am so very sorry for your loss.

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Nicholatracy

So very sorry to hear about John. Prayers coming over the ocean. Stay strong 🐞

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suelee123

So very sorry for your loss

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kevin123__puffs

God bless he can rest in pain free peace now

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Hobbledehoy

Oh my dear love... I am so very sorry... For all the suffering. Best wishes and God bless 🙏 x

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Burbagegran

I am very sorry for the loss of your dear husband, John. My condolences to you, not much I can say to you as comfort but you are in my thoughts. Please take care of yourself. Joan x

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Ksb6420

So sorry for your lost. Much love and prayers to you and your family.

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Debs_ALUKPartnerBritish Lung Foundation

So sorry to hear this news, please accept our sincere condolences.Take care

Debs

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Thinkhealthy

So very sorry to hear such sad news. Condolences and big virtual hugs.

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Jigsawsoap

I dont often write on here..but I'm so sad to hear of your dear husband passing away I can relate to your feelings as my husband passed away 4 years ago and it was so hard to see him fighting for breath At the end ..my heart goes out to you you're inmt prayers.. God bless with kindest thoughts and loving sympathy jigsaw soap x

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