Advice please

[bobz17]

My hubby has just been diagnosed with stage 3 lung cancer..........where do we go from here?

[Hidden]

Sorry to hear your news just sending you best wishes xxx

[bobz17 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you X

[Ktomoph_]

hi bobz

so sorry to hear that your hubby has been diagnosed with lung cancer....devastating news for both of you.

There is a website:

verywell.com/what-is-stage-...

that has a positive slant on understanding what stage 3 means....I hope you find it helpful.

But I know you will also get positives by posting here on the site, so please stay in touch.

[bobz17 in reply to Ktomoph_]

Thank you so much for your support and information.

[bobz17 in reply to Ktomoph_]

Thank you so much for giving me the website info, it has been very enlightening. On checking my husband's last discharge paperwork I have discovered that he has, in fact, got Stage 4 which no one bothered to inform us about. At least I have a better understanding of the situation now. XX

[Maureenclayton]

I am so very sorry to here your terrible news about your husband diagnosis, I am sure you will already have a good specialist to give you all the advise and help with any questions you need to settle your minds, the only thing I do know through my own experience with friends and relatives who have had or has still got cancer is that certain cancers have different stages and that some go to stage 4, you need to sit with your consultant and ask him every worry or concern you have and I'm certain you will be give it. I'm preying for good results for his future treatment, and also for your support. Love Maureen x

[bobz17 in reply to Maureenclayton]

Thank you for your support. We have indeed had good interaction with MacMillan. The consultant, however, has discharged us from his surgery as there is no treatment that can be given to my husband.

[Samjeff]

So sorry to hear that, I find the BFL fourum people very kind and helpful and are here to listen 24/7 sending you best wishes too. Sam x

[bobz17 in reply to Samjeff]

Thank you for your support and kind words.

[cofdrop-UK]

A very warm welcome to you, although I am so sorry to hear of your dear husband's diagnosis. I am not knowledgable enoiugh with regard to this condition but just wanted to wish you both well.

with love cx

[bobz17 in reply to cofdrop-UK]

Thank you for the welcome, it is much appreciated.

[Ergendl]

What sad news for you both. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

[bobz17 in reply to Ergendl]

Thank you for your thoughts and prayers, certainly in need of them now.

[bobz17]

Apologies to you all for taking so long to reply but my husband has been in and out of hospital a number of times since my first post. Unfortunately he keeps getting infections of one sort or another and he is gradually deteriorating and losing his drive to fight anymore. It is heartbreaking to watch when he has always been such a vibrant person. Thanks again for all your kind comments. XX