time to say goodbye

[tippiestoes]

this is my final post .

[diesel12]

Can I ask why?

[sassy59]

Like diesel, l ask why? Has anything happened? Xxx 

[CELAT06]

Why is this, love ? if you need some support for anything at all. just tell us and we will try our best to help. There are a lot of lovely people on here and between us we can answer a lot of questions. Please don't be alone and suffer in silence, we are all here for you. 

Christine. XXX

[Billiejean_2]

Would it help to share why you've come to this decision ? If there's any support, sharing views or just listening that might be useful, everyone here is happy to help. 

[Junegirl03]

Hi Hun if you need someone to talk too please know I'm here for you, please don't feel alone if you are down please know we have all been there and we understand just know that we all care and are here for u xx

[Hidden]

Tippiestoes please don't do anything silly.  I know how bad you feel coz I have been there too you know and so have others on here.   Please talk to us.   Get yourself some help,  I know things seem hopeless at the moment but life is about change and your life will get better.  Please don't give up hope love.   Bev xx

[elanaoali]

Hello tippetoes If you are leaving know this that you will never be forgottenby me. I hold you up in pray tonight to God who I bbelieve created you and knows your cares and worries, So I condemned you to his care.  My God invented 24/7 and has never taken his eye off the ball so to speak. My life hasn't been a bed of roses I had trials from my family and my health that's how I ended up here but I found help, acceptance, care and a place to ask questions.  Being here has blessed my socks off I get to help people hold people up in pray. 

[Moi62]

Hi Tippiestoes you have not said why .....maybe you just need to let us all know how you feeling now so we can help you.   Moi X X x

[rubyred777]

Hi Tippiestoes                                               Hope you'll change your mind.Seems you're feeling down and probably need someone to talk to. We are here for you, and wish we could help. No matter what it may be. Hope you'll change your mind.  Rubyxx 😊

[Spiritual1]

Tippietoes..please reply to others responses and let us know that you are ok???

This kind of statement you've made sounds very desperate..we are all very poorly on here but we are all there for you, there are a lot of wonderful people on here, that are only to happy to help and support you. Help is out there for you, from everyone!!!

Please don't despair..get back in touch and we can all try to help you with whatever your going through..

God bless you..

Love Lynne x 🌹 x 

[Jessy11]

Dear tippiestoes, please come back on & tell us why. If you've got a problem we may be able to help you. Talk to us & we will support you. We care about you 💐

[Hidden]

Dearest girl, It must have taken big effort for you to write those words, which shows you are struggling in the dark.  Honestly, nothing is as bad as it seems and there is so much help waiting here from your friends. Don't suffer on your own. Get back to us please?

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

G'day Jennifer

I have just read tippytoes post "Goodbye" and also read a post from the young lady of one month ago.

This "Goodbye" can mean many things,one of which,well I do not want to go down that path. After reading her last post I can only see a desperate soul crying out for help.

I am past the worried stage and am becoming more alarmed by the minute.

I do not know the ins and outs of the protocols and just who controls things but is there anyone out there who does have a way of contacting Tippytoes apart from this forum?

Do the moderators have any other information?? 

I will place a post and hope that we can get some results.

Will

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Good afternoon Will, I am managing to catch up at last.  Had a family upheaval to put it mildly.  

I've read further along and it is very good to know now that tippytoes is in hospital, and am hoping that does not denote anything sinister.

We have sunshine this afternoon- everything in my boggy wilderness is in shock!

I hope you are all keeping fine.  I bet you knew my godparents who emigrated to Australia in 1939/40  The Stelfoxes...and my Uncle Jack who went after the war on the assisted passage package?  He was very tall, handsome and blonde, and used to give us a half crown when he came to visit......heh heh

Jennifer

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

G'day Jennifer

Boy did you make me sit up and take notice.

Of all the names to mention you picked one I do know.

I worked with a very kind man at Ramset Fasteners in the 70's. His name was Reg Stelfox, what a co-incidence. I believe Reg has left us some time ago and moved his furniture upstairs.

Reg also was a very tall man.

I did not know contact had been made with Tippytoes. At least she is in a good place.

Stay happy mate

Will

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Heh heh Will........imagine that!  and I was joking, you know how it is when you tell someone you live in  Timbuctoo or somewhere and you get asked "My brother moved there - do you know him?" 

I was off with a family crisis when it was found out that Tippytoes was in hospital.  That was a relief in one way.  I hope she is ok;  that was a worrying message she left.

Went to bed at 9 with a book - Merlin beat me to it by a couple of minutes - he had a Tramadol and is in a sort of sleepy/slumber/one eye open mode.  Woke again about an hour ago...grr will try again later.

Checked on the hedgehog food and saw it being pinched by a tiny mouse, little beastie.

Cheerio for now

Jennifer

[bikergrove]

Troubles shared with friends are troubles halved and made easier to cope with,there is always a solution so think about it. You are in my thoughts, sending you a big hug, x

[Titchy52]

tippiestoes  now I've seen your post I hope your ok and get back on the site to talk so we can support u everyone's here for you god bless sending love and huggs to you xxx

[velvet55]

Hello tippietoes 🌷

Please return to us.

 So many of us on here have been in the depths of despair at some point,  in our lives, and understand exactly how you are feeling.

We will , and can help you, we will listen, you can pour your heart out to us.

You don't have to do it on here if you don't feel comfortable, you can PM me anytime.

You can call the Samaritans 24 hours a day, they are non judgemental, very supportive and are a great comfort to people who need to talk.

Sending you love and hugs

Velvet xx 🌷

[katieoxo60]

Sorry you feel you need to leave, maybe when you feel better you will come back to chat. We can support you if you need it but sometimes a break can help. Thoughts are with you at this difficult time for you.

[MSMichaela1966]

Oh my, I have felt like giving up many a time. I lay awake thinking is this all there is to life. Struggling to breathe takes all my energy but you know what Tippitoes? Life is precious and I hope you've woken up today feeling somewhat better. It seems you'll make a lot of people here happy if you replied. Please try and keep your chin up and think of some positive stuff.  Sending you much positive thoughts. Xxx 💖 

[Sherry44]

Dear Tippitoes.  Please don't think that way.  I know how you feel.  I have been there too.  I hope this doesn't sound too clichéd but the darkest hour is before the dawn.  Dawn does arrive and gradually this awful darkness passes from us.  Hang on, and as has been said before, let us know how you are feeling.  We all know exactly what it is like.

God bless you.

Love

Ann

[Dedalus]

As you can see tippiestoes there is so much support on here - PLEASE let us know-how we can help - don't try to go it alone - we're all here for each other!! xx

[pergola]

Tippitoes - I dont come as often as I did but  realise what a wonderful community exists.  No way would  I leave them  without a word of explanation.  I have been in touch already for a little morale boosting.  XX

[fcag2001]

WHY?  best only to leave the site if you are going into space.

Take it easy and be good to yourself. You are cherished here.

Take care 

[PastMeBest]

Hi tippietoes, you must really be in the depths of despair to leave a message like that without an explanation. 

Reading the replies shows how concerned people are for your well being and how much support is available for the asking from those who most probably understand what you are going through because they are in a similar situation themselves. 

Please reach out for the help you need. It is there for the asking.

If anyone is able to get in touch with tippietoes in another way privately, I hope they do so and are able to help you.

You are in my prayers.

John.

[Nanny1086]

Hi tippietoes ,,,there no words I can say that will make you change your mind ,only you know what is going on with your health and your thoughts ,,,,you don't need to write posts ,,,but you might just want to pop on from time to time ,,,you never know someone else might write something on here that will click with you ,,,  or it might just be you are no longer interested ,whatever it is ,,,,you will be missed ,and I'm sure you will remain in our thoughts ,take care and GodBless,x❤️💐👍💊🛌🍀🙏

[FarmerD]

It is so sad when this happens,we are a family and every member is as important as each other .Will you reconsider?Please?Let us know your worries I,m sure we can help.David.xxx.

[Scouser58]

Tippiestoes,,,,you have made a very strong statement and everybody is concerned for you,,, Please just write and say why,,,and if you don't want replys,,tell us so,,,,

We are all worried and concerned for you,,,,those 5 words are very worryingly strong,,,

TTFN from Karen.