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Where are those bright crisp mornings when the sky is the palest blue...hedges and trees tinged with frost...the faint scent of turf smoke hanging in the air.

For the last two weeks we've had heavy rain and high winds...now...don't know about you, but I don't do wind...swathing myself in scarves only makes me dribble and with oxygen prongs stuck in my nostrils it can be downright uncomfortable to wear a scarf.

So I stay indoors...muttering under my breath like an evil old witch...glaring out of the window at the rain sweeping across the field opposite...I swear it's been horizontal at times.

The birds hang onto the peanut feeders as they swing back and forth like a pendulum on a clock wound up too tight...even Molly, the escape artiste extraordinaire, hasn't bothered to lurk under the table close to the back door...ready to dive to freedom should Himself take too long opening or closing it. Instead she whiles away the afternoon sitting on the windowsill...her teeth chattering as she sees Blue-Tits and bedraggled Sparrows almost within her reach.

The wind lifts the corrugated sheets of tin on the barn roof...they slam back down with a tremendous crash...the little stone sheds are safe enough, they still have the corded wire over their roofs, wound round horse-shoes jammed tight between the stones.

Kitty's sheep huddle close together under the trees...their faces turned away from the direction of the winds, they venture a little way to eat sodden grass before going back...looking as miserable as only sheep can...folding their legs carefully under their tummies.

We have the light on all day long...it shows the cobwebs in the corners and attracts sleepy Wasps who've been lurking in the folds of the curtains...they drop to the floor and crawl about bewildered...Murphy bats at them with his paws...they have to be squashed though, so his latest plaything ends up flat and then in the range.

Himself still ventures out at six in the morning with the three dogs...he comes home cold to the bone...the dogs with muddy paws and wet fur...they shake themselves, sending a fine film of rain all over the floor and furniture and I snuggle down under the covers...cursing when they lick my face with hot tongues and stinky dog breath.

The high winds will stop, as will the rain...eventually. Once the Solstice is over we can begin to see a slight stretch in the day...

Now is the time for books and hot chocolate...for discovering a new quilt pattern or a crochet stitch to practice...a time to connect with friends old and new...write letters perhaps...sort through that box of old photographs...finish a jigsaw puzzle or play a game of Scrabble with the person you live with...send someone a RAK...a random act of kindness. A bookmark or a bar of sweet scented soap. Homemade fudge wrapped in cellophane...

Spring will come again...that is certain.

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Sheilab123

Absolutely lovely Vashti. Thank you xx

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I found a very old pack of playing cards in a drawer so I have been playing real patience. And I bought a Christmas colouring book too.

That's a beautiful description Vashti...I will be first in line to order your Book of Days

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Billiejean_2

It is vile isn't it ?

This week I've been reading Thomas Hardy who's almost as good as you at describing places and whose prose puts me in mind of you. I hadn't read any fiction of that era since college days and reading it has been like a slow meditation and gradual shaking off of at least some 21st century angst. As you say, it's a time for measured indoor activities, hot fires and cocoa.

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Hi billiejean, I read Jude the Obscure when I was in labour the third time around...not the most cheerful of books...and I never got the the end of the novel and that was thirty odd years ago

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The one I read was 'The Return of the Native' and while not particularly cheerful either, it had a strong storyline and fairly memorable characters. It took about a day's reading and - re-reading the first chapter to settle to such a slow pace and pages and pages of descriptions of nature. But once I got into the slower pace, I enjoyed it. Got 'Sons and Lovers' lined up next and will be interesting to come back to that after so long.

Maybe you should give Hardy another try Knitter ? Find out what happened to Jude after all. Where would we be without our books ?

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knitter in reply toBilliejean_2

Thanks billiejean I have downloaded Far from the Madding Crowd....I watched the Julie Christie version of the film again quite recently.

I hope your health is continuing to improve .

Take care

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Billiejean_2 in reply toknitter

Oh, I remember that one with Terence Stamp looking dashing in his uniform. I'm improving a little more slowly then I'd like but these things just don't oblige by rushing. Enjoy the book.

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Terence Stamp...Ooooo!

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Aha ! You're still alive then :) Terence Stamp was only gorgeous in his day. He's married to Sinead Cusack and they have a house in West Cork. He's very skinny now and looking his age, but still, IMO, very attractive.

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I once read he was 'the most beautiful man in the world'...

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Well we'd have to do a lot of ruminating before deciding that. How are things up your side of the country ? Is it as bad as they're saying on the news ?

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I have enjoyed all Hardy's books. What strong women. I almost felt sorry for the chaps - almost.

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Yes they were strong women. Good role models for feminists :)

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redted

Yep, Spring will come, beckoning the start of new life,giving us all that renewed hope that comes with the expectations of warm sun and spring flowers.

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Azure_Sky

Free quilt patterns to inspire you Vashti xxx

mccallsquilting.com/pattern...

favequilts.com/Monthly-Quil...

I so love to read your "stories" - they put into words the feelings that I'm also experiencing. I try hard not to wish my life away but, like you, I look forward to the longer days 😊. Jan xx

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Chez13

Smiling here after reading that , you should write more

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Aahhh, you make me feel all warm and cosy inside. I love reading about your life. I only disagree with you over one thing - stinky dog breath - I love it, love it even more when it comes from puppies. I'd rather have that to sniff than have all the jewels of Arabia.

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I love puppy breath too.

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