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Are you like me who suffers in silence or like my hubby who grunts and moans when he is moving around. I know he is in pain and love him to bits and will do anything for him but he is driving me mad.

It is even a pleasure to go out shopping now, I get in the car and give out a big sigh the silence is golden.

Bet you think I am awful.

polly xx

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BugsBunny

Polly, not awful just human.

Mandy xxx

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limbobimbo

Not at all as Mandy says we're only human.

Liz x

oooh No - I get a little irritated by my husbands moans and I do love him. BUT oh dear lord some days I am glad for a minute on my own. Take care TAD xxx

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scrobbitty

Not awful in the slightest :) xx I find that I will whinge for Britain if I have the teeniest little cut but when it is a big deal, silence is golden.

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newlands

My late husband had dementia i felt guilty because i enjoyed the hour on my own when he had gone to bed it was the only break i got ,but i would do it all again xx

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phillips1

I notice that it is all the ladies that are moaning. Us poor men have to put up with partners that never, ever stop talking. How would you cope then?

Bobby xxx

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Big sigh, Bobby, life is hard for you!! A monastery where the monks observe silence, and absolutely no nuns!!

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phillips1 in reply to

No nuns! No good to me then.

Bobby xxxx

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undine in reply tophillips1

Listen and obey ha ha xx

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pollyjj

I am sure it works both ways Bobby.

polly xx

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I don't think so Polly. Research revealed that women have to speak 3,000 more words a day than men. Proven fact. I rest my case.....cos it's getting heavy

Bobby xxxx

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Why do women speak more than men - to try and get the point they are making into deaf ears and an argumentative mind.

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copdber in reply to

Well said anniessed. Sorry Bobby :(

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undine in reply tophillips1

Yes but women speak such sensible words xx

At least us women are more stoical then you men Bobby :)

Bev x

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phillips1 in reply to

I wouldn't know a stoic if I tripped over it Bev.

Bliddy women all pickin' on me.

Bobby xxx

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