I was wondering if you were aware you could have an Advanced Directive for if you get ill again.
Basically it is a form telling the staff who are caring for you what you want to happen in the event of you not being able to communicate whilst you are ill .
it mentions who you want to be your nearest relative,who will look after any other children,or pets you may have.
It also includes which medication has worked fr you in the past and which hasn't been so helpful.
It also indicates who you want to take care of your bills and rent etc.
I found this very helpful to put in place while I was well and would recommend it.
Best Wishes Poulson