When I had my first HA almost 22 years ago (aged 39). I thought that my life had ended. Then my youngest just 6 at the time asked me "are we still going on holiday". I realised I had 2 options. Feel sorry for myself or get on with my life. I chose the latter. I'm a a couple of weeks away from 61 and just had Christmas with my daughters, granddaughters and I month old grandson.
LIFE YOUR LIFE do not let your condition dictate your action but just beaf it in mind. So for 8 HA's 2 ablation and 7 stents and a couple of operations and I am still here. I just modify my lifestyle for the maximum enjoyment.
Remember---You control your actions and how you think and feel, not other people. Be considerate but be yourself.
For those wondering. I just celebrated 41 years if marriage in September this year.
HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE.