Good morning dear friends.As you all have supported me so well during the years. I thought I would bring you up to date. On the 9th of February I lost my dear husband to the dreadful dementia disease, he suffered for many years. The medical certificate declared he died of dementia, but underlying chronic kidney disease and AF. As you can imagine my own AF is playing up due to the stress. Since last writing to you I have moved from the bungalow to an apartment in a retirement village. And I am very pleased I did that. The support from my fellow residents has been tremendous. I even go to the gym everyday! Trying to strengthen my legs., and attend yoga classes on a Monday. Just need to do some meditation to calm my heart down.love and hugs to you all. Rienij xx
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Oh Rienij, whilst I am sorry to read that you lost your husband I do know that it must have been very hard for you for some time. I am delighted , however, to read that you have moved and that you now how so much support. Stay well.
So sorry to read this sad news Rienji . Please accept my condolences,and may your memories comfort you in your loss.
It sounds as if you are quite settled in your new home ,how nice that you have company and activities to do.
It is to be expected that AF has raised it's nasty head but I'm sure things will calm down again in time, hopefully soon.
Take care dear friend and best wishes in your new abode xx
Just sending love to you. Sorry on your great loss and know the immense pain of grief on losing your husband. Good you have support from friends and hope as days go on you will become stronger. I know you will have good days and bad days, but it will get better even though we never forget, we can learn to live with it. They say God gives most when most is taken away, Take great care of yourself at this time, and wishing you happy days to come.
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Sorry to read this, sending all the best from the Charity xx We are always here if you need any support or advice.
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So sorry for your loss and thank you for coming back to tell us how you're getting on! I wish you well x
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Oh Rienij, I’m so very sorry to hear of your loss. ❤️ Feel for you so much. Sending very much love and prayers for comfort and for peace of heart - in every way xxx
I’m so glad to hear of your move. It sounds like an ideal place to be.
Thanks so much for letting us know your news, it’s so good to hear from you. Take care, J xxx
So sorry for your loss, I’m sure it must have been very sad for you.
So pleased that you now have good support and interested and delighted to hear you are enjoying the retirement village, my husband and I are hoping to move ourselves in the next few weeks. Good to hear from you.
I sent you a long reply, but see that its not here - just don't understand why that is!
So sorry to hear about the death of your husband, you still have lovely memories of the good times though.
Your retirement village sounds lovely and so many things there for you to do.
Sending you best wishes.
Jean xxx
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So sorry to hear of your loss. So hard to loose a loved one. I am so glad that the retirement village has proved to be so supportive and that you have plenty to distract you. Thinking about you.
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Dear Rienji. I am so very sorry to hear about your husband and send you love and hugs. I am pleased to hear of your move and the support you are receiving. It sounds like the best thing for you. Take care and keep in touch. xxx
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Sorry to hear about your husband. Dementia is a horrible condition. I lost both my parents that way. I am glad that your move has been positive and that you are getting lots of support. Thinking of you.
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Sending thoughts your way. Dementia is hard to witness in a loved one but it's clear that throughout that journey your husband was much loved. Now it's time to look after yourself. I'm sure your AF will settle as you settle in your new home. Gently does it wuth the gym but look forward to walks, chats and laughter.
So sorry to hear of your loss. Your retirement home sounds great and it’s good that you have so much support from friends. Hope your heart starts behaving itself soon.
Sad news Rienij, such difficult times for you but good to hear that you have moved to somewhere that gives you the help and support you need just now. Let’s hope your AF settles soon, best wishes, John
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So sorry for your loss. But glad to hear you are happy in your new home and keeping fit which, as we all know, is good for your heart and your happiness.Best wishes xx
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Dementia is a cruel disease and very hard on the loved ones and takes its toll on the carers. In all your grief you can console yourself with knowing that you have done your very best. So pleased you have done the right thing for yourself and are in a place where you are supported and can settle down to a different sort of life. With any luck the stress will subside and you will feel better. Thanks for the update.
My deepest condolences to you Rienij70, I remember you talking about him and it was obvious to us all he was much-loved and that the two of you were very close. I am so pleased to hear that you have support in your new apartment, and I do hope your heart calms down. Sending a big hug xx
Thank you, he is at peace now. Xx
I would like to offer my sincere condolences to you Riebij. On the other hand what an uplifting post from you. It brought a smile to my face thank you. So pleased your happy living in the retirement home it sounds perfect for you. Stay safe.
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So sorry for your loss, but happy you have regained 'a life' which is bringing you support and fun. Hoping your AF starts to decrease as your new life improves.
Rienij70, it sounds like you’ve been making a lot of very good decisions in light of your current situations. From what you say you are part of a very supportive group and that truly is something to be very grateful for. I wish you the best in settling into your new routines and would highly recommend you try some meditation - it was a real life saver for me when I started 4 years ago. Being part of a class can get you started (perhaps your yoga lady knows of some) but even just practicing a few moments of quiet presence at home is a wonderful way to begin. There are a number of free online apps that you can get - like Insight Timer - and there are also a number of wonderful spiritual leaders available on YouTube. I’d be happy to recommend a few if you decide to try it. Best wishes. Sue 🙏 X
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I'm so sorry for your loss. After so many years struggling with dementia, your husband is now at peace. What good news, though, that you're enjoying your new retirement home and getting some exercise. It sounds like the perfect solution for your a-fib to calm itself down. Wishing you well for the future.
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So sorry for your loss but glad you have a new home and able to go to the gym!
Oh Rienij,I am so sorry to hear your husband has passed away. I m sending you healing hugs. Your have been amazingly strong and curageous. AF is such a brat to choose now to act up. Well done you to have the motivation to go to the gym every day but please don't overdo it. Im glad you have support from your new neighbours. The yoga is a great idea as is meditation. One step at a time though your body will thank you. Grief puts a huge strain on the body and mind so gently does it. Lots of warm food and snuggly clothes might be a good idea.love and hugs to you.xx🥰🌻🙏
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