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She said yes.....

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A few of you knew I was planning to propose this year - I did it on holiday this week just gone - and she said yes!

When I was at my EP follow up last week I borrowed my grandma's old ring off my mum. Managed to hide it and slip it into my pocket. I knew I'd have to propose as soon as we got there because I'd have been worrying about it all week. After a rain shower I suggested we walk down to the cliff top for a look at the beach/sea.

Where I'd planned to do it was an old couple with flask of tea and sandwiches so we ended up going down a cliffside path to an outcropping (see pic) overlooking the coast between Filey and Bridlington.

As the eldest was running about wanting to climb up mounts of earth I bit the bullet and got down on one knee. I got a "WHAT?!" and then about 5 minutes of giggling. It's the only time I've ever said something, amusing or otherwise, and made her laugh like that!

She said yes, naturally, and spent the rest of the week smiling like a cheshire cat. We replaced my gran's ring with one of our own a couple of days later.

On the AF front - heart stood up well to a lot of activity. Did do a lot of walking, a lot of it carrying a 12KG toddler either on my shoulders or in my arms without any major adverse reactions.

My other triumph, aside from the engagement, was carrying the toddler up a steep, rough cliffside path at pace. The HR raised to 120ish, the knee stayed strong and it took less than 5 minutes to return to normal.

I could not have done that at any point in the last 5 years. Feeling rested, content, fitter and in the mood to carry on pushing activity now. Hopefully next week I'll return to full clinical duty for 12 hours which will be the real test of where the heart is... as it's harder to regulate your rest and recovery when you're at work. But it's all positive!

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Kaz747

Congratulations on your exciting & happy news Jedi 🥂🍾🎉

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jeanjeannie50

Congratulations Jed, wishing you health and happiness - you certainly deserve it after all you've been through.

Jean

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wilsond

YAY!!!!!😀😀 congratulations! On the successful proposal,health and confidence!! Great news xxxx

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BobDVolunteer

Congratulations

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GrannyE in reply toBobD

Nice to have you back!

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TamlaMotown

🎉 Congratulations 🎉

Love, Health & Happiness to the happy couple 💏💘

Congratulations Jedi, now you must be rated Master of the Universe. Wishing you every happiness.

John

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Finvola

Many, many congratulations, jedi and here’s wishing you many happy years together.

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Hilly22

Huge congratulations to you both ... so happy for you 💖 x

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djbgatekeeper

Congrats Jedi 👍

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cbsrbpm

Congratulations to to both, lovely news 🥂💞

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Maisiemay13

Congratulations

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Jalia

Congratulations! All going well now and do hope it stays that way ! You certainly deserve it.

Best wishes

J

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Visitingcat

What a lovely post, great to read your good news. After reading how much you have been through in your previous posts it’s so nice to read this : )

Congrats and best wishes : )

Many, many congratulations!

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rosyG

Many congratulations lovely picture

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dedeottie

Congratulations to you both. X

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Stumpy47

Nice one many congratulations to you both & your families !

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Beehive1

Congratulations

Congratulations! 💜

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Jane921

Thanks for sharing the good news! Congratulations to you both. So glad that you are doing so well.

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Aus19

Hey, well done, bro! Glad that heart behaved itself! Best wishes for the future from the other side of the world.

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Tudee

Oh to be young and in love.! Congrats to both, wishing all the best , health and happiness. Dee

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DianeEM

Congratulations and all good wishes to you both. Diane

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Dianemary

Congratulations 💕

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mavisrich

all good wishes to you both xx

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Jay10

Congratulations to you both. Glad that all went well with the holiday and you had a super time.

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Morzine

Congrats Jedi,

Sue

💍💐🥂Congratulations

Pat x

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Jennyquilt0

Congratulations

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Ianp66

Congratulations mate... Punching there 😉😂

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jedimasterlincoln in reply toIanp66

Yep I'm a lucky boy ;)

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Pinsy

Congratulations!!

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grandmadogs

Congratulations on both your engagement and your health. Well done!

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cat55

Congratulations to you both! Pleased to hear your heart behaved itself while on holiday too. Best wishes Kath.

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Rosemaryb1349

Congratulations 💖

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MydogBrandy

Congratulations x

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kbog

Congratulations!!! And so glad to hear your heart is behaving too!!

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Gain

Very many congratulations to you both and may you both have a long and happy life together! “Love, love, love ...,”

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Bowcat

Congratulations to you both xx 🍾🥂🎊🎊

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MarinaT

Congratulations!

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FLINGFLANG

congratulations pal, wishing you and yours a healthy and happy long life together, god bless..

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DueNorth

That's brilliant. Congratulations. You chose a great spot too.

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Horse57

Congratulations on all fronts! I wish you all the best ❤️

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Patsy10

What wonderful news💒 Many Congratulations, wishing you good luck for the future. May it be happy and healthy.

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12cupcakes

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉

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Fastbeat

Congratulations and best wishes for a happy future

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engvey00

Congratulations to you and your wife to be. Just celebrated my 67th wedding anniversary with my loving wife. I hope your marriage will be longer and every bit as sweet.

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irene75359

Huge congratulations, wishing you both a long and happy life together!

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Sereza6

So happy for your engagement and your health report!!

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CookieinAL

Congratulations!

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Gowers

What a lovely story - congratulations. I haven't seen your previous posts so I'm wondering if it's surgery or medication that has helped you get well again. I'm guessing that clinical job means you are working in a hospital environment?

Great share thank yoh

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jedimasterlincoln in reply toGowers

5 ablations, 20+ cardioversions in between times!

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Gowers in reply tojedimasterlincoln

Wow!

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Acwm

Congratulations. Somehow we share the same story of proposing to GF

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jedimasterlincoln in reply toAcwm

On a cliff or in Yorkshire?

Thanks for all your best wishes! Sadly the AF popped back into my life yesterday!

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Gowers

Sorry to read AF has coms back. Me too... just feeling better after 12hours.

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