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it is with great sadness that I post to let you all know that my husband of 49 years has passed away. Martin died on the 2nd August surrounded by his family. He was very peaceful.

In traditional Irish fashion the Wake and Funeral were large affairs celebrating Martins life.

I would like to thank everyone for all the information and help along the way.

Best wishes and good health to you all.

Nancy.

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NickJoy

Nancy, I am so very sorry. I hope you can find solace in the long time you had to love each other and the happy memories you have. Take care of yourself.

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sandystarfish

I am so sorry for your loss.

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Conlig1940

Nancy ,

It is with sincere sadness I send my condolences to you and your family on the passing of your precious Martin . I am originally from Northern Ireland and have been in North America ( Canada & the USA ) for 60 + years . I fully under an IRISH WAKE .

Martin would have appreciated the massive turnout respecting him as a good person and I'm sure. A wonderful family man after 49 years of marriage , your best friend and soul mate .

God Bless . & Martin R.I.P.

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JohnInTheMiddle

Nancy, may your husband Martin's memory be for a blessing and a comfort. On my father's side I have also roots in Ireland. Wherever we are from, there's always a ripple of connection.

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rickyfish56

Nancy, my heartfelt Prayers go out to you and your family at this time.

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Maxone73

RIP warrior. God bless you all.

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Nusch

My sincerest condolences 💐 Nobody should leave so early. Hope that your memories will stay forever.

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Tinkudi

❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️🥲

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Ahk1

my deepest condolences

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TylexGP

So sorry to hear hugs to you and your family❤️

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Tall_Allen

I'm very sorry to hear about his passing. 49 years! You were both fortunate to have each other - I'm sure that you have many fond memories. Peaceful and surrounded by family sounds like the best way to go. It is still hard, though.

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Mtnhigh

So sorry for your loss, Nancy. A big transition for you after 49 years. Praying for you and your family. I like the sound of an Irish wake. -Deb

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Mike1971

My condolences. RIP Martin.

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Cancer2x

Rest in peace, Martin.

Take gentle care of yourself Nancy.

Pax

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Juju1979

My condolences. Cherish the memories you created together and prayers that you may find God's peace.

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Alloy7

I'm sorry for your loss, Nancy. 49 years is a long time, and it's good that you and Martin got that time together. I wish you the best, going forward.

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rosenjpj

I am so sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing.

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London441

Very sorry to hear this. Thanks very much for letting us know. Terrible news but so glad that the funeral and wake were reflective of the love so many feel for him and the depth of your devotion.

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Dastardly

So sad to hear your news. Another one of us succumbs to this awful disease and will be sorely missed.

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Mcrpca

Losing someone dear is never easy. My heart goes out to you. Wishing you peace.

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Ian99

Sincere condolences, Nancy.

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Proflac

So very sorry. I'm sure you are thankful for a peaceful end. Thank you for telling us and cherish your happier memories.

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FortyWinks

so sad but glad you had so many years together and Martin had a good send-off. 🙏🫶

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Bronzee

so sorry for your loss.. May he rest in peace..

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Rickmartin1948

Dear Nancy, I am really sorry for your loss.

49 years is more than a lifetime and I am sure youve had it all there.

I am half Irish on my father's side, Dolans from Limerick, and the last wake of the last of my father's uncle was something to remember and his soul was alive with us. Maybe too much because we run out of whisky by midnight and had to go out to get some.

The Irish tradition is one of love and joy and that is how we want to keep them in our hearts when they move on to the next life.

May God bless you with with loud and vivid memories of your loved one, and may the Good Lord take him in his grace.

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PSA680

Dear Nancy -so sorry to hear year sad news - my sincere condolences to you and your family - may Martin rest peacefully

Kind Regards

Darren

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Imp4t

So very sorry for your loss. I will hold you and him in my prayers.

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Lavender22

I’m so sorry.

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john510185

Very sorry to hear this, Nancy.

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Amadeus71

🙏❤💪

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hopeful1956

May his soul be at God's right hand. Sending you gentle hugs. Love and Light.

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pakb

I'm so sorry- may your memories wrap you in warmth💙

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Cateydid

Nancy,

I pray that memories made during 49 years of shared blessings will carry you till you meet Martin on the other side.

“Always remember to forget the things that made you sad. But never forget to remember the things that made you glad.”

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Drandma

God bless you and your family!

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DarrylPartner

condolences

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Pmann

So sorry for your loss. May the peace of our Lord rest upon you.

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Istomin

My deepest condolences.

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PSAed

My sincere condolences , Rest in Peace Martin your battle is over.

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HikerWife

I'm so sorry for your loss, Nancy. All of our good wishes go with you, that you find comfort and strength.

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Lasered

So sorry for your loss. 🙏

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Tinuriel

May you know deep comfort in the midst of grief. My heart and prayers are with you.

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Lokicliff

I’m so sorry for your great loss. Sounds like you and your family gave him a great send off. Love and prayers for you.

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Blueribbon63

How very sad. My prayers go up for you and your husband, gone to soon 🙏💔

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DesertDaisy

I'm so sorry for your great loss.

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Mikeski

🙏🍀

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PKLA

God bless you and your family Nancy. May God's love and the love of friends and family, and the precious memories of the love you and Martin shared, sustain you.

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lcfcpolo

So sorry and sad for your loss. Please take the time to heal and remember the good times.

Graham

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Hailwood

Thank you for taking the time to let us know. My deepest condolences to you all

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Eagleandme

Nancy, he has passed, but he is still with you keeping you company in those still, silent moments of your life. May your grief bring you some healing, knowing that your grieving means that you loved him deeply. Condolences to you and yours.

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Azores1

May the Last rd give you strength. So sorry.

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Sagewiz

Condolences and the wish of peace through your grieving process. Thank you for sharing.

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Metaldraft

may all your heart receive the warmth that you received while you dance and rode together let the light guide you and the wind behind your back guide you towards this difficulty time …GOD bless for your true companionship and love you held

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witantric

This is such sad news:-( However, 49 years of marriage. That is so amazing! RIP PC warrior, Martin. May your memory be a blessing!

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Runner4000

I'm very sorry. Thank you for your thoughtfulness at this difficult time in letting us know. Bless you.

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JazzMan42

RIP, Martin!

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HotRod4321

Godspeed Martin!

In all the eons of time, you were here but for the blink of an eye! Those that knew you were enriched and blessed. Thank you, Lord, for having sent this soul amongst us!

(And if you would, maybe you could leave the side door in heaven cracked a bit for the rest of us!)

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j-o-h-n

For Nancy (to you and to your dear departed Martin) “Trust that an ending is followed by a beginning.”

j-o-h-n

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Kaliber

my heartfelt condolences on the. Passing of your beloved husband and another fallen warrior.

❤️❤️❤️

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cancerfox

So sorry for your loss of Martin, especially after the seemingly successful early treatments. Peace and blessings be upon you and your family.

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garyjp9

My deepest sympathies to you and your family. May he rest in peace.

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zeitgeistxx

Dear Nancy, I'm sorry you have lost your soulmate. I grieve with you. It is a blessing that so many came together to celebrate Martin's life. May you find peace and healing in the memories you made together.

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