Hello, I am 48yrs old I was recently diagnosed with PC, 10 out of 12 cores, half are gleason 3+3 the other half 4+3 PSA 68, also have multiple iliac lymph nodes that showed up on PET PMSA (9) all are within the pelvic radiation field but 1 is just above by 2cm, which put me into stage 4. No other metasis found.
So I have high risk but very low volume PC, the amounts in my lymph nodes was very small, the prostate tumor not very large I think 3mm in total
I started Lupron immediately and have a had a good response PSA 1.8 after two months. Not really any side effects yet, pretty bad hot flashes at night waking me up from sleep and a some loss of endurance, can't run as far, ride as far or exercise as long as I should, but nothing that is unbearable
Here is my questions, My oncologist said if I am not having real severe side effects from the Lupron I probably won't, is this the case or do side effects get worse with time?
My second question is the main one. I was givin 3 options for treatment, the first was to stay on ADT as long as I can then whatever else if and when it quits working, so in other words meds the rest of my life.
My second option was radiate the prostate alone, then stay on ADT / medication the rest of my life (didn't make much sense to me)
The third option is to include the one lymph node that's outside of the radiation field with full prostate & pelvic radiation 2 years ADT and then they would take me off all meds and monitor the rest of my life hopefully no BC recurrence "the cure"
I am strongly leaning towards the 3rd option as I am young if I can go for the cure I think I should but I am very worried about long term SE from full pelvic radiation, would proton therapy be a better option? Should I get a second opinion? If so from who?
My oncologist in hematology said she sees no reason I shouldn't live a full life and do absolutely fine with the 3rd option , my oncologist in radiology not quite as reassuring.