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ADT killing your love life? Embrace your feminine side!!

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y’all can call BS if you want to but things started working again when I stopped acting like a guy. Seriously.!! I started focusing on emotional love for my wife instead of worrying about my performance and guess what. I no longer have to jab the little guy with a needle. It only took about 10 years so be patient. I think our partners would agree , we are more than our penis

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Kaliber profile image
Kaliber

I embraced the feminine side but my wife made me stop. Said I was stretching out her clothes. Just say’in 😂😂😂

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dockam in reply to Kaliber

Lol, lost a lot of muscle mass with 8 years on ADT

Fight on, Dress up On

Randy

My feminine side🤣
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Kaliber in reply to dockam

😁😁😁

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dockam in reply to Kaliber

Lol, I think that was on a weekend and we did laundry and I took her Sundress out and put it on!!!

Randy

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Kaliber in reply to dockam

uh ….huh …. But : let’s see those gams with fishnets, and 5” black patent leather stilettos. Just say’in 😂😂😂😂

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dockam in reply to Kaliber

And whip/handcuffs too?

youtu.be/0T5KRZytxto

If will if you will :-)

Fight on, LOL on

Randy

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Kaliber in reply to dockam

uh …. Huh ….. I’m “ up “ for anything ….. ( up ??? ) er …uh ….. never mind. It’d be “ all that work “ for nothing yayahahahaya

😂😂😂

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dockam in reply to Kaliber

youtu.be/GP0X0CRMZLU

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Kaliber in reply to dockam

low spark of high heeled boys , Stevie winwood. traffic …. The stones, especially ….. David Bowie in his Major Tom days … and the best of all times “ Rocky horror picture show “ yayahahahaya yayahahahaya great stuff ….

Love ya brother

Maybe I could forage around on that pile of old hard drives in “ the back of a secure closet “ and find a photo cache or something yayahahahaya. Not saying I have one of those …. But , you never know ….. yayahahahaya yayahahahaya.

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dockam in reply to Kaliber

I'm just a sweet transvestite

From Transexual, Transylvania, ha ha

Oh, what, forgot about Weird Al

youtu.be/-IUMCyAR6U0

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monte1111 in reply to dockam

Ok, Randy, do you choose your videos on how excellent the singers' dental work are? I think the Lola guy could use some of your magic.

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dockam in reply to monte1111

Lol, I think that singer is British which doesn't have Universal Dental Care 😂Braces probably have to pay outta pocket

Fight on, Floss on

Randy

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Carlosbach in reply to dockam

Love it Randy

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dockam in reply to Carlosbach

Lol, and Mahalo, I'm just a lil cross dresser now with Testosterone at like 13!! :-)

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erjlg3 in reply to dockam

🤣🤣🥰

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dockam in reply to erjlg3

😂💙😊youtu.be/bc80tFJpTuo

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GSDF in reply to Kaliber

LOL!!! LOL!!!! 🤣😄

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Kaliber in reply to GSDF

I’d probably look like this ….

Plus, his lip liner is awful. 😂😂😂

Omg ….
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Kaliber in reply to Kaliber

instead of my usual beautiful self …

Burp ….
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Carlosbach

Todd, thanks for the post.

My wife and I started courting (now there's an old fashioned word you don't hear any more, dagnabit!) and after falling back into love again, we started hooking up (the modern usage).

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Kaliber in reply to Carlosbach

bragger …. Yayahahahaya yayahahahaya you have my admiration. 💪❤️❤️

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Carlosbach in reply to Kaliber

Yeah, I'm thinking about changing my handle to No1NarcisistSexMachine

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Kaliber in reply to Carlosbach

yayahahahaya … wonder if you ever met Walter Mitty … just wondering 😂😂😂. Dunno what your “ medication “ regimen is right now , but sounds like I might want to change over to something you are taking, as well. I want some ( gestures with large vertical circular wave of the hand ) …. of all ” that “

Just say’in

😂😂😂😂

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Carlosbach in reply to Kaliber

As a man of science you should know that your initial hypothesis is flawed.

What you really need is for the Hammer to find out what the hell happened to my wife, or what she's taking. Since we got busy again, my wife won't take no for an answer. And of course I don't want to say no, just want to get it while I still can. Talk about a QOL boost😅

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monte1111 in reply to Kaliber

Thanks for the medication regimen reminder. Oops, I did it again.

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tsim in reply to Carlosbach

It's still around, now it means she filed a restraining order.

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Carlosbach

don’t I know it...

Your second paragraph leaves me with sooo many questions????

Almost as many as doc’s photo above

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dockam in reply to Carlosbach

LoL, ask away😂

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Carlosbach in reply to dockam

Firstly, are you really a size 2?

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dockam in reply to Carlosbach

LOL, I dunno what size her sun dress is, but I know it's not a 2. Been scrawny my whole life, but now having Low T for 8 years has shrunken my muscles and the Southern area too😜

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Carlosbach in reply to dockam

Yes to the dress

whatever the size, looks like you rocked it

I was always “husky”, I’d look more like K’s drag pic above

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dockam in reply to Carlosbach

I may or may not have surprised her by wearing her bra 😂

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Carlosbach in reply to dockam

what happens in the laundry room, stays in the laundry room

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dockam in reply to Carlosbach

Yup, two consenting adults 💙

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Kaliber in reply to Carlosbach

lol

Now I just need to find a way to flip this into my dating lines, as I was a divorced single guy when I was Dx (and still am). Perhaps I need to find a woman that shares the views that dockam ’s wife has if leaning into our feminine side is the way. 😂

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dockam in reply to EmpireGradeCyclist

Yea, that could be a criteria for dating, but some women like Stout Hearted men:

youtu.be/Wze64OQdJBM

And not one in touch with their feminine side :-)

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DarrylPartner

excellent post. Worthy of serious consideration.

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addicted2cycling in reply to Darryl

PRIORITY of using one's head between shoulders and not the thighs can result in satisfaction for ALL involved

Had a bilateral Orchiectomy almost 8 years ago and even having nerve damage we still ROCK-n-ROLL

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JPnSD

Thanks Todd. Important for us to help get our priorities straight. Too often the emotional health we need to recover with APC is overlooked. Men have been too focused on masculinity and being a man being about their penis size and erections. Thanks for helping others appreciate the opportunity to grow some emotional maturity. Thank you for sharing.

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Horse12888

ADT didn't turn me into a woman; it turned me into a thing, a pathetic, sobbing mass.

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DaveBSD

"we are more than our penis"

Mostly true, but I've known guys who were complete dicks. : ) Sorry, couldn't resist.

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monte1111

Giggled all the way through your post.

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erjlg3

Adorable and funny posts🤣♥️

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Scout4answers

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Scout4answers

I would respectfully disagree with you Todd. What they want from us most, is for us to be Men.

Lead, Take Charge, Make Things Happen and Protect them.

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Scout4answers

( I like those ) On this we agree.

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Kaliber in reply to Scout4answers

we agree on what you said too …. “ they want men to be men “ …that’s all she wants too actually. It’s all just part of the rich texture of life yayahahahaya.

❤️❤️❤️

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