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Hello All , On this memorial Day , we honor the fallen Warriors . As a Marine Grunt in Viet-Nam I witnessed the pain of a fallen Marine in Combat . And that pain continues today with Agent Orange . There are now 17 presumptive Cancers and Diseases, that affected us in 1 way or another . I have Stage 4 , Oligo . My MO at VA is very good and we will see how this all plays out . So I just want to wish my Nam Vets Peace and Love .

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j-o-h-n profile image
j-o-h-n

From a Vietnam era trooper......... I hold those real vets in high regard and don't understand why there are private charities for those guys (and females) instead of the government footing all the bills for all Vets especially the wounded.... God Bless them all...

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Sunday 05/29/2022 10:18 PM DST

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Kaliber in reply to j-o-h-n

The military directly supports active duty soldiers …. With excellent medical care and powerful rehab. Then The V.A. Takes over and Does support and supply vets that have been wounded, disabled or are just plain sick. I’m my 10 year era with the Army hospital system ( Vietnam era ) and the Decades with the V.A. Medical Centers …. Vets are supplied with everything.. even houses / housing … with pools ( if physical therapy is involved ), all their custom prosthetics, glasses , hearing aids, dental fixtures and tooth work … beds / trapezes , everything medical ….and “ hefty “ monthly checks to pay for quality subsistence if needed. Those advertisements on TV that say the vets aren’t supported are outright wrong and directly self serving monetarily. They may help some but they have big salaries and massive advertising expenses to cover and well.

Our country loves our vets and in my experience…takes pretty good care of those that have sacrificed. Not saying there isn’t more that could be done, there always is, but the military medical system coupled with the V.A. Does especially good work.

My friend Bussman ( mark ) ….Urang on this group …. Lasted over 22 years on Army and V.A. Care …. He received all the SOC drugs , even the untested ones …when nothing else was left. His monthly income from the V.A. Was substantial … he lived (/and dies ) with his wife Peggy …in the woods in Missouri , very comfortably and well provided for. The government took very good care of him.

Just say’in ❤️❤️❤️

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j-o-h-n in reply to Kaliber

Well I was rejected by the VA because I was considered "wealthy" and did not qualify...We called that "grab ass"......

Here are a few funds that should be (should have) Funded 100% by the government.

1. Wounded Warrior Project.

2. The Fisher House Foundation.

3. World War II Memorial Fund.

and etc.

"takes pretty good care of those that have sacrificed".

That is what I'm talking about....... Give them what they deserve 100%..... (pretty good doesn't cut the mustard).....

Three males in my family, all of us served in the military. None of us have ever received a nickel from Uncle Sam and none of us wanted anything. The only reason I went to the VA is because my Doctor left "private practice" to teach in the VA and he was the one that I trusted with my many many urinary stents. Well I couldn't see him unless I was in the VA system. Uncle Sam Wants You......

Just say’in ❤️❤️❤️

God Bless all that served or are presently serving their country...

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Sunday 05/29/2022 2:23 PM DST

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Kaliber in reply to j-o-h-n

Well for sure the V.A. seems to be struggling more nowadays than in my era .. plus when we aren’t at war someplace, people kinda forget about it ….. seems like. The V.A. has a big job and rarely seems to receive the financial resources it needs. Its rough for them sometimes.

When you drive up to the pharmacy parking lot in your Mercedes…. To pick up your meds …. It raises eyebrows buddy yayahahahaya yayahahahaya.

When I enlisted in 1970, the Army promised me lifetime care for me and my family. That promise didn’t last long.

Hope you had a nice holiday, love ya buddy

❤️❤️❤️

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j-o-h-n in reply to Kaliber

Brings up a true story.... Waiting on line in a supermarket in East Hampton....The well dressed woman in her expensive beach outfit ahead of me payed for her groceries with USDA food stamps..... When she walked out with her groceries I asked my son to see what car in the parking lot was hers. Sure enough it was a late model black Mercedes...

Must have been the one we robbed to get my meds at the Rx......

Hope you had a nice holiday, love ya buddy

❤️❤️❤️

God Bless out past and current military personnel.

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Monday 05/30/2022 9:52 PM DST

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Kaliber in reply to j-o-h-n

That’s how she could afford a Mercedes yayahahaha.

😂😂😂

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Lyubov

Grateful for all who died in service and all who live on but with wounded bodies & minds.

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Tall_Allen

I'm thinking of starting a live local support group in LA for vets only - do you think there would be much interest?

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reconjj in reply to Tall_Allen

Its worth a shot . The V.A. has many support groups but i dont think just for PCa here at Hines in Illinois but i could be wrong . Thanks Allen for all you do .

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Tall_Allen in reply to reconjj

Thanks, I'll ask some oncologists I know who work there. I don't pretend to understand all the psychological issues that can arise in the brave men who have seen action. But the least I can do is create a safe space for them to get together and help one another out. It seems that helping one another is essential in combat as it is everywhere in life.

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middlejoel

I hold a special place for Viet Nam vets. I didn't go overseas but saw many of my friends go off to a war of choice. I think that most were drafted. In my opinion, we can't spend too much to care for those vets who fought in that horroble war.

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Boywonder56

Second that emotion....

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ARIES29

Here in OZ we were conscripted back then & some conscripts did see action.

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Bebby1

MyLove and best wishes to you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

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20PeteG16

20 years service, Vietnam Era through Dessert Storm with 11 years Fleet Marine Force; yet passed over for promotions so let go. I am fortunate to have supplemental insurance and no need to require overtaxed VA services. Still I advocate with and for our veterans.

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tayninhtom

Back at you brother. Tay Ninh’69. Nui Ba Dinh rock quarry was my home. Combat engineer with the deuce (362nd). I would eat my C Rations off a drum of Orange, ha ha. Keep up the fight.

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reconjj in reply to tayninhtom

I Corps , all North of Danang , Quang Nam , Quang Tri provence . USMC Grunt 1970

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RJP2 in reply to reconjj

1/9 third marines. I corps. LZ stud vandergrift The walking dead. 1968-69. Operation Dewey canyon. Simper Fi Brother

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reconjj in reply to RJP2

Glad we made it home . I was with Bravo 1/5 , Charlie 1/1 With 4 service connected ratings the V.A. takes care of me real good , no complaints . Here in Illinois if you are rated at 70% or more , we do not pay property taxes . SemperFi.

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tayninhtom in reply to reconjj

Same in Florida. Rated 100%, I paid no property taxes. Our goal is to live as long as we can!

God Bless our boys, then and now.. thank you for your Sevice! ❤️

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Rice7454

Thanks to all you guys and gals that served our country. My deep appreciation to all of y’all. All veterans have earned and deserve to be treated with the highest respect and care. Thanks for serving!

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Spyder54

Thank you for your service to our Country. Proudly flew our Flags over the weekend🇺🇸. Born in 1954, drew a high number at age 18 in draft of ‘72, then a lower number in ‘73 with Cambodia flaring, then quieting and the Draft lottery soon ended. Felt for you guys. Had nightmares at just the thought of going. Nightly News from ‘68 to ‘72, my High School years was difficult to watch with so many casualties. Thank you🇺🇸

Good luckReconWe are all in this together...........................

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Cancer2x

‘Nam 66-67. 1st Inf Div, Army. Recon Rat myself. 100% Disabled, Four Cancers and Diabetes - Thanks Agent Orange! Can still kick ass tho, if required.

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