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New rules for improving our peer-to-peer behavior

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We're a support group community, which means many of our 15,200+ members come here because they are hurting, crying, stressed out, or want a safe place where they can be men fighting cancer. Rudeness, poor comportment, foul language, and hurtful statements have no place here. So, starting today, all new members will be enrolled in an etiquette course.

From the teachings of the Balissande Finishing School ( balissandefinishingschool.t... ), our prostate cancer community members will develop empathy and poise, setting examples of caring and eloquence for family, friends, and doctors.

Balissande is one of the world's finest schools, where royalty, captains of industry, and the upper crust learn how to relate in peace, kindness, and beauty. Completion of the Balissande eleven-week finishing school course ( bit.ly/3tR2QfL ) will be mandated for those of you who resist our new behavior standards.

I hope you all understand and accept this intervention.

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cigafred profile image
cigafred

If it can make me eloquent (doubtful), sign me up.

Javelin18 profile image
Javelin18

Thanks Darryl, this is probably something I should have done a long time ago. It has taken me a long time to learn to choose my words for best effect, and I know I have more to learn.

Scout4answers profile image
Scout4answers

Very Timely Darryl

I was looking for something just like this for my Granddaughters. The internet being what it is, surely someone has created a knock off for a little less than $39K.

Javelin18 profile image
Javelin18ā€¢ in reply toScout4answers

I looked at the price, after reading your comment. I don't think we can realistically ask people to spend that much. There are probably etiquette guides that we could use. I'll see what my library has online.

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6357axbzā€¢ in reply toJavelin18

April 1st

Scout4answers profile image
Scout4answersā€¢ in reply toJavelin18

Think Darryl was putting us on , it is after all April Fools Day!

Javelin18 profile image
Javelin18ā€¢ in reply toScout4answers

Okay, I wasn't sure if it was a joke. Should have remembered the date. I still think I'll read the book I found below. I've been having a hard time talking with people about my cancer.

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Javelin18ā€¢ in reply toJavelin18

Didn't find anything at my library, but found this on Amazon,

amazon.com/Etiquette-Illnes...

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vforvendetta

Darryl, I get it :-)

monte1111 profile image
monte1111

Very funny. I think j-o-h-n should be the first one mandated.

westof profile image
westofā€¢ in reply tomonte1111

Hmm... I guess I'm next in line!šŸ˜•

j-o-h-n profile image
j-o-h-nā€¢ in reply tomonte1111

Sorry monte1111, I do not date men.............but for you I'll make an exception.....

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Saturday 04/02/2022 7:29 PM DST

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monte1111ā€¢ in reply toj-o-h-n

As Kaliber would say, oooooooouuuuggg. I see you have diversified your writing staff.

j-o-h-n profile image
j-o-h-nā€¢ in reply tomonte1111

Yep we're full of LGHTBAW4F staff........

** click on play youtube" **

youtube.com/watch?v=VgYczUH...

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Sunday 04/03/2022. 5:38 PM DST

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monte1111ā€¢ in reply toj-o-h-n

No stopping you now. I'd like to see you in a white suit.

j-o-h-n profile image
j-o-h-nā€¢ in reply tomonte1111

Ok you will.. when I play doctor............

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Sunday 04/03/2022 6:56 PM DST

westof profile image
westofā€¢ in reply tomonte1111

Yea and big disco platform shoes!šŸ˜’

Kaliber profile image
Kaliberā€¢ in reply tomonte1111

Lol

Gearhead profile image
Gearhead

Darryl, this confirms my suspicion (from your PCa expert interview videos) that you have a fine sense of humor.

spencoid2 profile image
spencoid2

*#!! you i don't need no finishing school Happy 4/1/2022

DenDoc profile image
DenDoc

LMAO. Good one Darryl. I bit hard on this one.

Foldem profile image
Foldem

Well done, sir. I got quite a laugh when I got to the link. Also a bit of sticker shock!

Boonster profile image
Boonster

HAHAHAHAHA! Clever!

thudson1965 profile image
thudson1965

I checked the link and thought "WTF" $55K - then April fools - not cool.

dhccpa profile image
dhccpa

I sure as hell don't want to take an 11-week course, so I'd better bone up on the rules! Good to remind us periodically

anonymoose2 profile image
anonymoose2

Thank you Darryl. You are a gentleman and scholar.

Mr Debonair
Rocketman1960 profile image
Rocketman1960

Charm School for the Internet. Ha! I thought I was already charming. Darryl, Happy April!

j-o-h-n profile image
j-o-h-n

Another nail in my coffin.....I learned all my etiquette from my good friend and mentor, Will Smith.....

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Saturday 04/02/2022 7:25 PM DST

Kaliber profile image
Kaliber

Yayahahahaya ā€¦. Kewl

šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

CharlieBC profile image
CharlieBC

You could have told me it was for April Fools before I bought it!!

Kaliber profile image
Kaliberā€¢ in reply toCharlieBC

Lol

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Boywonder56

How bout we just have a bad manners jar/ donation to hu....you drop the f bomb...5 bucks...you make fun of j.o.h.n.s dress....1 cent....you show your man boobs....priceless....

Kaliber profile image
Kaliberā€¢ in reply toBoywonder56

Yayahahahaya šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘

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