Yesterday was my 2nd appointment with the MO. Some may remember that I was very dissatisfied with the first.
I started the visit with my own little speech. First, my apology. I had expressed my dissatisfaction to others in the clinic (I had started - then stopped - the steps to change Medical Oncologists), that's no way to have good communication. No way for one man to deal with another. I was wrong. I should have come to him, one-on-one, first.
I moved on to tell him what I expected of him.
TallAllen, are you reading this?
Be prepared about my case before the meeting - explain and teach about his conclusions and recommendations, I want to know and understand what is going on with my disease.
Listen carefully to my questions and ideas. I'm going to continue to research on my own. (doctors everywhere these days must HATE the internet).
So, when I come up with some 'full of shit' idea, I want to hear from you "Krebs, you're full of shit and here is why..."
I wrapped up with, "If you aren't comfortable with my expectations, then maybe we're not a good fit. We should both understand that as soon as possible."
"You've pretty much described what I would consider an ideal doctor/patient relationship," he said.
I kind of think we're buddies now.