Dealing with being small

[Andyp123456]

I really struggle sexually because of my size being a fair bit below average, particularly in terms of thickness so a lot of positions don’t really work and I struggle to find good condoms that stay on. I know people say size doesn’t matter but it definitely does to some extent. Does anyone have any tips for how to have more sexual confidence or has anyone been in a similar position and found a solution?

[Man7Cut]

Hey man don't put yourself down. Penises come in all sizes and thicknesses. Contrary to what you see online most guys aren't huge, the average is about 5ins erect. A lot of manufacturers produce narrow or small condoms it's just a matter of experimenting till you find one that suits/ fits. I know it can give you a bit of a hang up, but I have a mate who's about 4.5 ins hard and he's married now so there's someone for everyone

[xsevenx]

It’s probably bigger than you think, you are looking from the wrong angle.

[jaglad]

As others have said you are more than likely not as small as you realise.As for sex, try from behind, it gets a little more length in.

[Man7Cut]

Hey after being in contact with you I agree that because of your penis size you would struggle with a regular condom, because it is important that it stays on to protect both of you. I do like Jaglad's suggestion of entering from behind if you haven't already tried it.

[Iro1]

HiI was tiny half an inch when soft almost like a clitoris.

Gradually through use it has returned to normal i put it down to anti Ds and low testosterone and obesity.

Apparently now im almost too big so there is hope.

Also note the recent episode of Industry a classy HBO BBC series.

Rishi's wife threatens to divorce him because he stopped lickinvg her.

Women love receiving oral so mbe offer that as part of the package?

Iro

[Petit4incher]

take it from someone who’s been in your shoes. I always thought I wasn’t big enough and let it take over my life. Then at 26 met my now wife who’s never mentioned me being small. Have 3 grown kids so my 4 incher certainly works. As for position I find doggy best. As for condoms first time I put one on she told me it was like eating a sweet with wrapper still on. lol. Plus you have a tongue and finger. Not always about sex

[Andyp123456]

thanks for all the helpful comments. I’m working through stuff and have hopefully found some condoms that fit me properly!

[Iro1]

Good to know take a look at Greek statues their men bits are very very compact.It was the embodiment of masculinity to have reproductive functioning organs that could be small enough to be protected in combat.

The modern ideas about penis size have been driven by the porn explosion on line with an unecessary racial element often emphasised.

I have 3 kids it works

[sinombre]

I don't know how many tight small fitting condoms there are on the market but I found one that's a nice tight fit for me, it might be good for you, look online for "Caution Wear Iron Grip Snug Fit" condom, the most important term to search for is "Iron Grip" the product marketing name, and "Caution Wear" being the brand.

I am curious to wonder how being small, at least in girth/width as you describe is a problem for positions, for the condom issue I can understand.

For me I've found shorter length can impact the positions you are able to do, as I'm also on the shorter side around 4 inches max, you end up sometimes sliding out more easily due to the lack of length, and can't penetrate as deep, so in certain positions, I'm reluctant to slide out more for a longer thrust as, one miscalculation and you have to reinsert again, which is a bit of a pain since my thing is also curved so it doesn't insert as easily as if it was straight.

[Man7Cut in reply to sinombre]

Hey you're right it's all about finding the right position