So I ran into my friends son (my godson) yesterday at our farmers market and we decided to have a coffee together. We chatted up one another about our lives and boom, popped the question “are you and dad fucking yet”? I was there when his dad told him of how our relationship has changed so it caught me off guard. It it be he’d forgotten? I thought it better he ask his dad to answer, not me so I told him that. He then said to me “I mean I know you are but who’s doing the fucking”? I laughed with a big smile on my face because I know this kid (full grown man but always kid to me). I knew he needed to hear that his father was the top dog. I almost repeated to him to ask his dad but decided this answer needed to come from me. I wasn’t as graphic with him as how I’ve been with my friends here but I answered in this way
“Your father is still the Big Dog, it is I who has gone through the change and become his total bottom in every way. There is nothing your father does that changes his manhood except love his friend. I hope it doesn’t change your love for me that I’ve become this, whatever it is , I do want your blessing”. He smiled and took my hand and we talked some more on the grandkids and both our families.