My father is totally bedridden. He has had aspirated pneumonia a few times in the last month and a half. He was fitted with a feeding tube last weekend. Since he came home yesterday, he mostly sleeps. He is not talkative with the PSW's who come to care for him 3x a day. He used to talk to them and be fairly happy. I'm not sure if all quality of life for him is gone. He cant get out of bed even to go to the bathroom. When i talk to him, its like he doesnt even know I'm there at first. Has anyone been at this point? Is there anything I can do to make him feel better? I dont know if he's close to the end of his life. I dont know if the feeding tube was a bad idea. Will it just prolong misery?