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Hii

I want to ask .I got in a one year 4 times abortion . What should I do to avoid pregnancy. Plz suggest me .

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wildchild1989

have you tried contraception..... speak to your gp.... you can have the mini pill implant injection the coil or use condoms..... there so much to chose from your best of getting advice from your gp x

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1201 in reply towildchild1989

Yes I tried

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wildchild1989 in reply to1201

so you have been to see your gp.... did you get any contraception.... you can't keep having abortion its really not good for you at all x

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roxannacar

Are you UK based? Then your gp in one option for discussing contraception. Also family planning clinics too if you dont want to see the gp.

I'm a bit surprised that the abortion clinic did not give you an advice?!?!

Having repeat abortions is not good for you physically or mentally .

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1201 in reply toroxannacar

Yes now I am very depressed . I want to come out from this but not able to come .😔😔😔

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Tealharp

What contraception do you use?

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1201 in reply toTealharp

Cerazetti desogestrel

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My gynecologist wrote this for me

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Tealharp in reply to1201

Are you taking it regularly. That should stop you getting pregnant. If it's not working then you should speak to your doctor to try something else.

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Naijagirl1

You need to go on contraception asap!

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Naijagirl1

If someone is treating you bad and putting you down then that person does not love you, or want good things for you. At the end of the day it's your decision if you want to continue to live that kind of life but you should take some time and ask yourself if you're daughter was with that kind of person, would you want her to stay in that relationship? What is more important to you? Being in a relationship or being happy and healthy, mentally and physically?

I would suggest you seek some help as soon as possible. There are organisations that can help you if you choose to get out of this. xxx

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1201 in reply toNaijagirl1

🙏🏻🙏🏻 you are right because for him I nothing just staying together sleeping and having sex rather in these three thing he never allowed me to talk and he don’t want kids he don’t want use protection during .and some time he go crazy he rays his hand on me . After that he apologized . And he said he is short temper . Some time he love . I am very attached with him . But now I want to come out . And I think you are right .

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Naijagirl1 in reply to1201

Your life is precious. Please don't let him take away your joy. I know it will be hard but you can detach yourself from him. Is there someone that can help you out? I'm worried for you. xxx

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1201 in reply toNaijagirl1

No I am out of my country staying alon last two year back met him .

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1201 in reply toNaijagirl1

But really I like this community you all of them are very helpful and good people. Thanks a lot for sporting me . Just need good guidance.now I completely broken heart 💔.mantaly. But the true thing is I love him a lot . A lot I want him to understand . My feelings but don’t know how I tried my best but 😔😔

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But I want to go but I don’t know what is holding me .

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Might be I am afraid with loneliness. Or living alon . I am not able to understand . What is right . For me . One part sys he will understand soon . And then another sys I can’t now .

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YunaMom

Terrible. Get on birth control pill.

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Yes I will

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roxannacar

Are you taking your cerazette properly? Needs to be taken every day ideally around a similar time. If you're forgetting then ask your gp for an implant.

As for this "man" he sounds controlling and violent. Please contact someone like the iris team or womens aid. Ask your gp to help you with this if you're not sure. He doesnt deserve you and you dont deserve to be treated like this.

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1201 in reply toroxannacar

😔🙏🏻🙏🏻

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I feel some time he need a love support to be normal because might be he had bad past thts why he became like that . And if I leave him like this he will be more and more worse . I want him to be normal as others..I will try my best one more time let’s see if I can do .

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Katja123

Hello, how have you been? Did you leave the guy? He is toxic and it is not your job to help him, and this is not possible.

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TheSeal

Hi, how are you? Take the pill, now. I understand that this men is hurting you so you can't carry on like this. Also it's not wonderful for people trying to conceive and going through miscarriages reading that you volunteered to abortion so many times. Please seek for help.

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