Feeling sad with no reason

[Shaky27]

Hi girls. I’m 7w pregnant of my 3rd kid and this is a desired and quick one lol

But lately I am feeling very sad all the time ... like nostalgic and arguing with huby doesn’t help.

I didn’t feel like that with my 2 previous so is it something you experienced too?

But don’t get em wrong I am so happy and excited for this baby 😍

Xoxo

[Kt19]

Hi congratulations I was just the same and couldn’t explain to my partner why I was like it we nearly broke up over it been together 12 years we’ve got a 5 year old together and I’ve a 15 year old both girls x were expecting our 2nd in 6 weeks my 3rd girl . It was awful we tried for this baby and was so lucky it only took two month but from day dot of finding out I turned in to a awful reck no reason either apart from been very sick . I was really happy about being pregnant but just couldn’t explain why I felt so sad lonely and angry . Went to see the doc he told me it’s my hormones as I’m older this time 35 😑luckily it past at unfortunately 20 something weeks I’m still being sick I’m 34 weeks but something just changed . I know it doesn’t help what I’ve just said but at least you know your not the only one xx

[Shaky27 in reply to Kt19]

Ohhhh thank you for sharing Kt ... I feel understood! And congrats to you too.

Same for us we are almost split up because I’m so upset and he doesn’t understand. For us it went even quicker... pregnant just after first periods after taking out my IUD. Lol

Now we just don’t talk to each other as everything he says is taking huge proportion in my mind and I don’t want to talk to him as I’m very sad.... don’t know how to explain ! 🤦🏽‍♀️

I’m a bit older than you and so far a few heartburn if I eat something in the morning only.

My 2 kids boy 11 and girl 7, are so sweet and careful with me and so happy with lots of questions about baby3 lol .... so at least this is a breath for me inside...

xoxoxo

[Kt19 in reply to Shaky27]

Oh god don’t get me started on heartburn 😂 same my little girl is sooo caring xx we’ve come up with a code word if we need space or a cuddle gonna try it rather then expecting us both to know where pissed off or feeling low x going to use the same when babies here x for instants one words hey! he’ll take that as I need 10 mins and grab the baby 🍼👶🏻 xx

[Shaky27 in reply to Kt19]

Lol oh that’s a good one ! I’m going to buy him a perfume as he complains his is finished. My way to show I want peace lol

Then I will propose him some codes so we avoid upsetting each other... tks for the tips!

Xoxoxo

[Kt19 in reply to Shaky27]

Ohhhh I’m going to pinch your idea 😂 get in his good books x Xxx

[Shaky27 in reply to Kt19]

Ah i forgot to add.... I’m getting very jaleous (for no reason again) like jaleous because I’m not going out !!! Not about women.... when he goes out without me .... OMG even me ... am upsetting about myself hahaha

[Kt19 in reply to Shaky27]

😂😂shouldn’t laugh but I’ve been the same but about other women 😏arrr well the joys of pregnancy xx

[Shaky27 in reply to Kt19]

Hahaha but it makes me laugh and annoyed me at the same time so ... you can laugh because I’m sure I’m going to be jaleous about other women too at some point hahah

[Kt19 in reply to Shaky27]

It’s a good hing to laugh I suppose cause we both know where both being daft 😂😬

[Tilliekins]

Huge Congratulations!

I'm pregnant with my 1st (27+3) and I was exactly the same!! Must be those naughty hormone surges...

I would strongly suggest speaking with your midwife and letting her know.

My midwife referred me to specialist midwifes who are giving me holistic thearpy so a foot rub and armotherapy every other week has been a life saviour.

Hope this helps

Your not alone

Tillie and bump xx

[Shaky27 in reply to Tilliekins]

Tks Tillie. I really need to do something. Pb is my first appointment is only in 2 weeks and I don’t even know yet who is my midwife

Not familiar with the system here ... I find this long to wait so on Monday I’ll pop in to the gp.

Congrats to you 😘😘

Xoxo